Are people too afraid of being grown?

[Scustin Bieburr]

I've been speaking to people in their 30s wanting to be taken of and whining about the world being unfair or their job being hard. Motherfukker, you supposed to be a mentor for people in their 20s and younger. Who told your ass that life was going to be easy and fun or that aging is fun and easy?

Maybe I'm just buggin out

 

[Apollo Creed]

I've been speaking to people in their 30s wanting to be taken of and whining about the world being unfair or their job being hard. Motherfukker, you supposed to be a mentor for people in their 20s and younger. Who told your ass that life was going to be easy and fun or that aging is fun and easy?

Maybe I'm just buggin out

internet stunted growth

 

[Sbp]

Yes they are

 

[Umoja]

I agree.

I think a big problem of late is a lot of folks running around with this 30 is the new 20 mentality.

The bottom line is time is real. Denying the reality leads to frustration. It is also creating a break in the tradition of passing on wisdom to the next generation. Old heads are trying to compete rather than mentor.

 

[The Fade]

Arrested Development been around for a long time

thats some of yalls parents

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Getting old sucks. Who the fukk wants to get old knowing time your time is dwindling on earth. shyt is depressing, looking back on lost time Seeing ya parents get old is WOAT

Let folks do what they want as long as they ain't effecting you.

 

[I Really Mean It]

Who says that someone in their 30s is supposed to mentor 20 year olds? Plenty of people in their 30s, 40s and even 50s are still trying to figure out the purpose of their remaining time on earth.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Who says that someone in their 30s is supposed to mentor 20 year olds? Plenty of people in their 30s, 40s and even 50s are still trying to figure out the purpose of whatever time remains for them.

You ain't lying mane. Hell, some people NEVER challenge themselves. You see this at Walmart all day, old ass people gave that place 30 years

 

[BaggerofTea]

People shy away from accountability and responsibility.

Why? Couldnt tell you. Love the freedom of being a grown adult

 

[TEH]

Youth culture reigns

blame ads, music, sports & capitalism in general

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I swear yall act like 30 is the end of life…


Plus at 20-30, I’m not trying to get mentored by people close to my age. Im not trying to mentor people 20 unless they’re family. I’m trying to get mentored by OG’s

But regardless, yall act like nikkas can’t complain or vent. Only issue is if you keep complaining without action. Some people are meant to be examples of what not to do, but your career and “being an adult” isn’t all a person is.

More to life than paying bills.


What is being an adult anyway? You should’ve been taking care of your responsibilities since High School. Take care of responsibilities and try to have fun/peace whenever you can

 

[Balla]

I remember a dude said, “30? I ain’t tryna see that shyt.”



That will always be funny as hell to me.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Who says that someone in their 30s is supposed to mentor 20 year olds? Plenty of people in their 30s, 40s and even 50s are still trying to figure out the purpose of their remaining time on earth.

And that's the point of the thread.... It really aint about trying to figure out your purpose so to speak... it's really about being honest on speaking on what you know life...ISN'T ABOUT, and passing on some real knowledge to those younger than you.....

 

[Wild self]

Cause no one would try to make society a better place to live in. People who have no intentions of changing anything for the better always be the ones bytching.

 

[ShenJingPoQi]

Have you seen the average 40+ grown person? Of course, people are afraid to grow up and mature, when the generation before paint a picture of despair and disease. Until there is a proper template of aging and how to be grown whilst being healthy and mentally sound, many will not want to age and have a stunted growth,