Are there any other men who just flat out have NO interest in getting married?

[Miggs]

My friend turned 35 and is on that wave, on one hand he does well with the women, on the other hand that nikka will answer your texts promptly and won't leave you the fukk alone if you do text him. I don't know, he travels a lot which got me a lil jealous, but he does come off as lonely sometimes, I asked him once if he was gonna have kids and he told me he's using his nephews as surrogate children

Take him with you when you move to Curitiba...

 

[Bless't]

There is no such thing as a happy, everlasting, monogamous relationship. You should be happy with someone for as long as it's possible then move on. Life comes in stages. So date someone for as long as the both of you are enjoying one another's company. Then when it inevitably starts to unravel (because it will) the two of you can at least go your separate ways without the hassle of divorce.

And when it comes to loneliness... you can either deal with it or you cant. You're either mentally strong enough to or not. Everyone should be self aware enough to figure this out.

 

[Malta]

Take him with you when you move to Curitiba...

I don't need to, he been in and out of Brazil, Panama & Colombia the last 8 months

 

[Miggs]

I don't need to, he been in and out of Brazil, Panama & Colombia the last 8 months

Scouting locations like Masai

 

[42 Monks]

There is no such thing as a happy, everlasting, monogamous relationship. You should be happy with someone for as long as it's possible then move on. Life comes in stages. So date someone for as long as the both of you are enjoying one another's company. Then when it inevitably starts to unravel (because it will) the two of you can at least go your separate ways without the hassle of divorce.

And when it comes to loneliness... you can either deal with it or you cant. You're either mentally strong enough to or not. Everyone should be self aware enough to figure this out.

I try not to believe in absolutes because you never know.

I've never met someone who can provide the above for me personally but I'm not pretending I haven't seen it in other people's lives.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

When you get older, and you see all your friends settling down into marriage, children, family and you start to feel like something is missing from your life and change.



You aren't alone in this.


Lots of men feel this way about marriage, until what I posted above happens.


Good Luck.

I never bought into this.

...till it happened to me.

Luckily, I've aged like an immortal (hairline aside) and managed to avoid illegitimate kids, STDS, and all other types of unwanted permanent shyt. Plus I'm rich (by regular-people standards) So basically, I have my pick of the litter.

Get Married (in your 30's) brehs!

 

[Malta]

Scouting locations like Masai

Looking at the pictures he's sent, he's done a better job with prospects than Masai

 

[Miggs]

Looking at the pictures he's sent, he's done a better job with prospects than Masai

Getting pics like that would be depressing...make you feel like you missing out on all life has to offer...

 

[Bless't]

I try not to believe in absolutes because you never know.

I've never met someone who can provide the above for me personally but I'm not pretending I haven't seen it in other people's lives.

True. I just know myself I suppose. And a "forever" relationship isnt in my cards.

 

[IShotTheSheriff]

Picture yourself single, in your 40s, no kids, still in the club with Jordan's on.


Meanwhile, all your friends are married, going on family vacations, wives are friends with each other, have problems (just like you still will) but different type of things you can't relate to.

But when all your friends have families, and are having family day you will feel it. I've seen it.

But a lot of men settle down when they are old, tired, as their is nothing else to do.


Single life gets played out.

1. i dont club now in my 20's, let alone rock Jordans when I wish to impress.
2. since when is it healthy to constantly compare your personal life to others?
3. its cool to settle down because of the fear of being old & lonely?
4. every activity i can do married i can do single... maybe not having someone on call but that's cool.. you can also say being married gets played out, its subjective.

 

[FukyourFort]

i would love to start a family and have a wife but i wont settle just to get it.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

1. i dont club now in my 20's, let alone rock Jordans when I wish to impress.
2. since when is it healthy to constantly compare your personal life to others?
3. its cool to settle down because of the fear of being old & lonely?
4. every activity i can do married i can do single... maybe not having someone on call but that's cool.. you can also say being married gets played out, its subjective.

Okay.


I was simply stating reasons why a lot of men get married.

All their friends are.
They are old, and tired.
Nothing else to do.
The woman they feel like they can't live without gives them an ultimatum, and they accept it.



That's all I'm saying.


Most men feel like the OP until they are in their late 30s or 40s.


Then, the above kicks in.


If it doesn't happen for you. Okay then.

God Bless.

 

[My neck and my back]

Just tell the women you are involved with this, and you're good to go.

that's unnecessary

 

[MikelArteta]

Wrong the average age a man gets married at is 30

A woman's opinion y'all

Okay.


I was simply stating reasons why a lot of men get married.

All their friends are.
They are old, and tired.
Nothing else to do.
The woman they feel like they can't live without gives them an ultimatum, and they accept it.



That's all I'm saying.


Most men feel like the OP until they are in their late 30s or 40s.


Then, the above kicks in.


If it doesn't happen for you. Okay then.

God Bless.

 

[bcrusaderw]

that's unnecessary

What kind of dirtbag strings along innocent people?