Are these facts when it comes to dating?

[DropTopDoc]

People would be happier if they date people they like

people would be happier if they didn’t want to date a fantasy than the reality


People would be happier if they didn’t have 8 million stipulations disguised as standards

Stop acting like a nikka has to be every thing to you while you are the bare minimum and frustrating to love

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Stop with the "men are the prize" bullshyt. All yall muthafukkaz aint prizes.

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

Yes & no
Depends on the person
There ARE people that don’t consider salary
I myself don’t care for example & know a lot of successful girls who don’t care either.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Folks take relationship advice from women with 3 bd

Or men who been divorce 3 times


U got to learn on ur own


There definitely people who try to date beyond they means

But it's folks who date within they means not having success


The best advice is to learn urself


There no one short fit all thing

So u can do what she says and still have no success


Live for u and don't care about this bs

And that when u run into the best people

Steve Harvey types definitely the main ones tryna give advice lol

 

[Ziggiy]

From what i read a lot of this right.


If you don’t like your dating pool its up to YOU to move up, sideways, diagonal, or wherever to be in and accepted in those spaces.


I’ll also add that I personally have always believed that when it comes to BLACK dating there’s someone for everyone. If your a breh whose objectively a 7 looks wise and into lets say “geeky” shyt like anime, videogames, etc. there’s a corresponding brehette out there for you. And with the advent and rise of social media based dating there’s literally NO EXCUSE why you can’t find your romantic counterpart. The game is literally rigged in your favor

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Noticing a trend
Seems like current modern men want to let the females control the dating scene

exhibit A

coli breh : “I want 100 dms flooded to my inbox just like all these hoes “


Fred

Yea I’ve seen that on here. Dudes complaining about the lack of DMs they get knowing that women get a ton


You gotta go for what you want. Can’t make a shot you don’t take. And the best scorers keep shooting even in a drought. Who usually initiates meeting someone? Men. Who usually initiates the first date and what they do? Men. Who usually pays? Men. We control this dating shyt

 

[Burned Verses]

The most single, unmarried, and divorced race of people with the daily dating prescriptives lol.

I don’t even disagree really, it’s just a tired conversation that I feel a lot of people use as a roundabout way to shyt on somebody.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

From what i read a lot of this right.


If you don’t like your dating pool its up to YOU move up, sideways, diagonal, or wherever to be in and accepted in those spaces.


I’ll also add that I personally have always beleaguered that when it comes to BLACK dating there’s someone for everyone. If your a breh whose objectively a 7 looks wise and into lets say “geeky” shyt like anime, videogames, etc. there’s a corresponding brehette out there for you. And with the advent and rise of social media based dating there’s literally NO EXCUSE why you can’t find your romantic counterpart. The game is literally rigged in your favor

Hell yea shyt is rigged. I’m glad I came up when I did but if I was a young nikka right now shyt would be too easy. I had no choice but to approach a girl or get hooked up with one. Sometimes we would be on the hunt for girls and didn’t even come across any like that. Now you can find dozens of single women that wanna meet someone with a few thumb presses on your phone

 

[The Pledge]

We all know the problem with relationships is nobody fights in their weight class.

Which is weird because it's so stress free when you stay in your own class.

 

[010101]

natural sense*

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Most men ain't even coming across ig models

 

[buzzkill]

America is going to be a country of single people in the near future. I think it's 40% of unpartnered people right now. I only see this increasing

I thought about making a thread about it.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Yea I’ve seen that on here. Dudes complaining about the lack of DMs they get knowing that women get a ton


You gotta go for what you want. Can’t make a shot you don’t take. And the best scorers keep shooting even in a drought. Who usually initiates meeting someone? Men. Who usually initiates the first date and what they do? Men. Who usually pays? Men. We control this dating shyt

And some guys can’t communicate

they get a girls number and then text her


“Hey”


And get shocked when they get no reply lol


Dating is easy when you give a girl instructions…u be surprised how that reduces flaking

 

[Sex Luthor]

Dudes will expect a submissive wife who fukks like a porn star and cooks like Martha Stewart but bring absolutely nothing to the table.

You gonna hurt some of these coli brehs feelings talking like that. You know they all have 6 figures and 6 certs..... While sleeping on a air mattress with roommates

Sidenote, your mother isn't your roommate unless your name is the only one on the lease

 

[King Poetic]

all I have to say is this

there’s a lot of women with no kids who make 70k a year that submit easily to nikkas that’s not even making 30k a year

perfect example my cousin.. a ex con , former gangbanger who barely can find work do to a felony , is with a lawyer chick who make high 90s and I’m like