Are today's men scared of p#@!#$ ??

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I know a lot of you guys won’t admit this, but you’re afraid of p*ssy. Not the physical task of thrusting inside a vagina, but the anxiety of talking to a girl that may not like you or falling for one that may game you. These fools say they’re emotionally unavailable, and women buy that shyt, some Basicas even get turned on. We both know that you’re not emotionally unavailable, you’re just trying to play off the fact that you’re afraid girls won’t like the real you the longer they get to know you! Men aren’t allowed to talk about being nervous; we have to pretend we don’t getbutterflies because we have to behave hard. Men can’t confess that they’re worried about liking a girl too much; we have to pretend as if we only want sex so we won’t get our feelings hurt if she doesn’t want more from us. “I’m not scared of them, I just don’t want to be called thirsty.” Go swallow bleach, you idiot. That’s like saying, I don’t want to go interview with Donald Trump for a position making seven figures a year because I don’t want to be called money hungry. They are women, you’re supposed to want them! All of this emotional fronting is see thru, and the reason why we live in a nation of simps is that today’s men are fake hard. True hardness comes from confidence, the ability to put it all on the line and go after what you want thennot give a fukk if you face a few setbacks. So what if she only wanted the dikk, so what if she stops liking you after the thrid date– you’ll get over it! The risk is always worth the reward, my nig! There is no better feeling than waking up next to the girl of your dreams and knowing she chose you. At that moment of victory it won’t matter where you fell on her Must-Have list, if she thinks you’re as fine as her man crush, or if she has ulterior motives, you proved that you can get what you want by being yourself, and from that day forward you will always know that the only true limits inlife and love are those you place on yourself.

Full article @ http://blackgirlsareeasy.com/2014/06/are-men-scared-of-p*ssy.html
 
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Sounds like me. Hopefully it stays that way.

I feel a bit for yall generation in that regard. It's so much easier to talk that shyt online than it is in person, hell maybe your online persona, doesn't fit your look, or hell maybe you are a completely different person offline(not you persay) It's much easier to talk to someone online, but if that's where the majority of your interaction comes from, it's hard to translate that to the physical.
 

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I'm pretty sure the majority of men are not afraid to talk to females. At least I don't see this.
 
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I'm pretty sure the majority of men are not afraid to talk to females. At least I don't see this.

Ehhh. it's pretty common. and it goes both ways. Not saying afraid, but nikkas ain't just attacking every chick they see at the club. it's like 15% of nikkas trying to get numbers and everyone else nervous or just chilling.
 

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Ehhh. it's pretty common. and it goes both ways. Not saying afraid, but nikkas ain't just attacking every chick they see at the club. it's like 15% of nikkas trying to get numbers and everyone else nervous or just chilling.

Oh I see what you mean. nikkas do be standing on the wall. But bytches do that too. Me and my nikkas in the middle we getting twerk. Getting live.
 

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I see alot of threads on here in the TLR that I believe would not be made if the posters simply just talk to women. I think its a number of yall that think that there is some flawless algorithm when approaching/interacting with a woman.
 
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Oh I see what you mean. nikkas do be standing on the wall. But bytches do that too. Me and my nikkas in the middle we getting twerk. Getting live.

I'm just saying 80% of the club is wallflower status. I aint gonna sit here and like like I'm Bill Bellamy in How to be a player or nothing. I take me a few swings and if I strike out, I'm out. to old to be in this bytch like im working a shift. And we all know nothing good happens after 1 in the morning. unless you are at home or a hotel.
 
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