Are u quick to drop someone if they flake on the first date?

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I used to be a lot more forgiving in my younger days. A girl flaked on me the 1st 2 times. Finally showed up the 3rd time. We got real serious after that. Even moved her into my apartment. Came home from work one night and she was sleep with her phone layin on her chest. I picked it up, put it to my ear, and it was some clown singin Joe's "All the Things Your Man Won't Do"
 

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Depends on the reason. My girl cancelled the first meet-up but we connected later and it went from there. She never flaked or showed lack of interest in meeting after that first time FWIW.
 
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i got a gf already i was tryna get some side p*ssy…was supposed to meet up with this other broad n she snapchats me her period just started

:stopitslime: I havent snapped her since
Lmaoo so that bytch can’t go on a date because she’s on her period, Lmaoo. If you don’t bush that broad… :stopitslime:
 
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Everyone has shyt in their lives they have to deal with, that can come up at the most inopportune times, so if you feel they're genuine in their excuse, there's no need to cut them off right away. If she pulls out and doesn't initiate a reschedule, then chances are she's not really worth pursuing. If you're a good judge of character, you can usually read the situation.
 
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Laying the grounds for the person to walk all over you by giving her a pass.
If you instinctually pull the cord if a women has to postpone a first date, then you're typically not someone that has any confidence in your ability to take control in an actual relationship.
 
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