Are we wrong for not wanting to help family members move?

[BrothaZay]

TLDR

me and my bm got asked to help some family move

We both don’t want to and I flat out WONT


Our reasonings are both different but mines is:

When me and my bm moved a few years ago
We didn’t ask anyone for help. On top of that she was pregnant at the time. She did hire movers but that was it

Our logic is:

- they can do the same or they can hire movers themselves

-more backstory. This isn’t a 2 adult household asking for help. It’s 7 adults living there.

I don’t see why 7 adults need even more help moving out of a regular sized house. Or why 7 adults can’t all pitch in to pay for movers

 

[horizon]

7 adults is crazy

 

[I'm Blackman]

Hell naw.

I just read the title and typed "hell naw", I didn't even read the post.

I hate moving. If i love u or got love for you Ill pay for (or help pay) for movers before I help you move.

I wouldnt ask anyone to help me move out of Wayne manor. Dont ask me to help you move out your 3 bedroom.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

7 adults and asking for help is crazy.

With 7 adults, they can easily hire movers instead of asking you to help.

 

[FTBS]

You dont need any reasoning...you dont wanna do that shyt. Its one thing if its your parent or grandparent or if you asked them to help you move. But a house full of grown people

 

[Sauce Dab]

Nah yall ain’t wrong, that shyt is a hassle. Working up a sweat breaking your back and then it’s always somebody who ain’t doing they fair share thinking they helping by “supervising“

 

[WhereIsTheLove]

7 adults and asking for help is crazy.

With 7 adults, they can easily start a Moving company

fixed

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

Asking someone to help you move for free is the most narcissistic, tone deaf shyt ever in life.

Im in zero danger of ever saying yes to that request.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

fixed

7 Grown Ups & A Truck, Inc

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Nah yall ain’t wrong, that shyt is a hassle. Working up a sweat breaking your back and then it’s always somebody who ain’t doing they fair share thinking they helping by “supervising“

then once it’s done, they offer you a box a pizza when y’all verbally agreed to cash

 

[Richard Glidewell]

I don't ask for help because I don't wanna help......I then unbox all the shyt 90 percent because then I don't have to get into small arguments with my lady and shyt gets put in the places where I want them........

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

I did the majority of moving things out a couple years back

when it came to moving things into the new place all these people showed up, I said "fvck this", went off to get drunk

 

[BrothaZay]

7 Grown Ups & A Truck, Inc

We gonna get Breh & Breh to go over the paperwork

 

[Phitz]

I've moved myself for the most part but my brother, father, and my old lady have helped me move. They drove 10 hours to help. I have the best family. Feel sorry for y'all.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Yes

I help ppl because I know i will need help some day

It's called community