Are women really not getting approached?

[Neuromancer]

Your fellow coli-mates say this constantly and I’ve witnessed it.

Say what exactly? I need a quote.

 

[Caca-faat]

Say what exactly? I need a quote.

Have a look yourself, it won’t be hard to find.

 

[Shadow King]

I think that if she isn’t falling all over them, they wouldn’t take the chance. hey

This is the disconnect women seem to be having. Giving signals =/= falling all over a man.

 

[Neuromancer]

Have a look yourself, it won’t be hard to find.

I just did and I can't .Not with the wording you used.

 

[Neuromancer]

Have a look yourself, it won’t be hard to find.

I just did and I can't .Not with the wording you used.

 

[Vandelay]

I know the post wasn't to belittle anybody but it's just facts. I'm a frequent poster in the Gems on Women thread and I get, for a lack of a better word, chastised for not getting at women while knowing I still am not a catch by any stretch. The word "handsome" has been said enough but if I truly were women would give a different look other than ones of fear of annoyance. But I'm saying this to say I know nikkas gotta build themselves up. The money thing may never be too big a factor for choosing because if I can make anything work in the field I want, I don't have to be business-dressed so I won't look the part of "getting money".

Even though not too many females commented on this thread, the whole "men stopped approaching" cause cats like me did but not the tier of men all women think they're entitled to, didn't, is tiring. I'm a living man and I count. Now I don't EXPECT women to approach but if they're tired of Kofi Siriboe in his residency not walking up on them they're adult enough to change how they get him.

Good stuff. All I'm saying is, if you want to stop getting the short end of the stick with women...work on yourself. Women's attraction is based on you being a long-term mate. Nothing more, nothing less.