Are women really not getting approached?

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Shadow King said:
I'm not saying women should approach (though they should open up to that since they have such an issue getting who they WANT)...by acknowledging men I don't mean walking up on us. But the bytch faces and phone faces aren't pulling nikkas with sense in, and then you get women getting approached by the "Aye Shawty" types that give no fukks and don't count in their heads.
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Don't forget those women that show you signs that they want to be approached until you find out they are only attention whoring or being difficult. I don't deal with shyt test, I get up and leave. Oh, sometimes they will go behind you back n call the bouncer to take you out cause you didn't kiss their ass and they have poor social skills.
 
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Caca-faat said:
Nope not an emotional reaction at all, I am of sound mind and judgement. I also don’t say things I don’t mean, I’m not a cropduster of bile like you.

You must be very difficult to be around, your presence should be celebrated not tolerated.

Have you taken that shyt yet; you must be touching cloth.
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Someone put something in her mouth my zipper is closed :dame:
 
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O Fenômeno said:
White feminists fukking up the game :francis:

Women still want men to approach..especially black women...

I'm attractive and most women still ain't gonna approach my ass..what they do is get in your vicinity to make it easier for you to see them and approach them.

Breh just try a "hello pretty" every now and then when you shopping or some shyt...

Women want attention,affection,sex from men..just as much as we want the p*ssy from them...And most women will rationalize that you didn't really want them anyway if you didn't say anything to them.

Most women will do the :queen: as a sign to let you know she choosing.

I suggest you sit back and observe breh because alot of brehs be attractive to women and don't even be knowing...I was like that.:pachaha:
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I'm quoting this again for the edit...I observe...a lot. This is why I can say what Im saying. My eyes are open...RBF and glued to the phone. I can and do also entertain what @Ask a Stupid Question said...women ain't open to ME. A lot of dudes can't fathom this for themselves though.

Women are NOT out here hair flipping though.
 
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Shadow King said:
I'm quoting this again for the edit...I observe...a lot. This is why I can say what Im saying. My eyes are open...RBF and glued to the phone. I can and do also entertain what @Ask a Stupid Question said...women ain't open to ME. A lot of dudes can't fathom this for themselves though.

Women are NOT out here hair flipping though.
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Maybe not for you :mjlol:
 
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Shadow King said:
I'm quoting this again for the edit...I observe...a lot. This is why I can say what Im saying. My eyes are open...RBF and glued to the phone. I can and do also entertain what @Ask a Stupid Question said...women ain't open to ME. A lot of dudes can't fathom this for themselves though.

Women are NOT out here hair flipping though.
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Bruh...my statement wasn't made to belittle anyone. I hold the position that 8 outta 10 nikkas are average. You can look at any of my posting history on similar topics. Some of us have a plus like money or looks, but most nikkas are average.

I'm a short average looking nikka with a receding hairline. But I'm in shape and I make ok money. So I do halfway decent with women. However, I straight up used to think I was undateable...I had my formative years spent in the hood. I didn't want most of the chicks in the hood; the ones I wanted thought I was a square and the ones that wanted me were generally mud ducks. So I got my degree on, my exercise game on, and got my paper up and moved out the hood. Now...I still have to pursue, and on occasion jump through some hoops...but most women choose up on me. I just have to make the first move.

Know the women you want to get at, and work on yourself to get what you want. People make it into rocket science when it's not. Figure out what you want, and what you value and work on it. Some people aren't honest with themselves about what they're willing to do to get what they want...and that's the biggest problem standing in their way.

And I'm not saying do these things because you exclusively want to get women...do it because you want to get to another position in life. But also realize, what you want in life may not align with what women look for in a mate.
 
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Ask a Stupid Question said:
Bruh...my statement wasn't made to belittle anyone. I hold the position that 8 outta 10 nikkas are average. You can look at any of my posting history on similar topics. Some of us have a plus like money or looks, but most nikkas are average.

I'm a short average looking nikka with a receding hairline. But I'm in shape and I make ok money. So I do halfway decent with women. However, I straight up used to think I was undateable...I had my formative years spent in the hood. I didn't want most of the chicks in the hood; the ones I wanted thought I was a square and the ones that wanted me were generally mud ducks. So I got my degree on, my exercise game on, and got my paper up and moved out the hood. Now...I still have to pursue, and on occasion jump through some hoops...but most women choose up on me. I just have to make the first move.

Know the women you want to get at, and work on yourself to get what you want. People make it into rocket science when it's not. Figure out what you want, and what you value and work on it. Some people aren't honest with themselves about what they're willing to do to get what they want...and that's the biggest problem standing in their way.

And I'm not saying do these things because you exclusively want to get women...do it because you want to get to another position in life. But also realize, what you want in life may not align with what women look for in a mate.
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I know the post wasn't to belittle anybody but it's just facts. I'm a frequent poster in the Gems on Women thread and I get, for a lack of a better word, chastised for not getting at women while knowing I still am not a catch by any stretch. The word "handsome" has been said enough but if I truly were women would give a different look other than ones of fear of annoyance. But I'm saying this to say I know nikkas gotta build themselves up. The money thing may never be too big a factor for choosing because if I can make anything work in the field I want, I don't have to be business-dressed so I won't look the part of "getting money".

Even though not too many females commented on this thread, the whole "men stopped approaching" cause cats like me did but not the tier of men all women think they're entitled to, didn't, is tiring. I'm a living man and I count. Now I don't EXPECT women to approach but if they're tired of Kofi Siriboe in his residency not walking up on them they're adult enough to change how they get him.
 
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