Are women really not getting approached?

MaxPain

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Who gives a fukk if there not getting approached:mindblown:


Thats not my problem.

If I want a woman, Ill approach. Im still 100% cold approaching, personally. If I dont, I wont and it aint cuz im afraid to. Im just not interested, I dont want ur ass.

If u are a woman that is not getting approached thats a you problem
 

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Dudes nowadays walk up to a chic and ask for their Instagram and in their phone like they doing something important. I see that shyt all the time in the clubs.

Women get approached all the time but I think the problem is not necessarily the man's approach but rather how the women receive the encounter. Alot of women don't know how to process that encounter or build on that interaction and come off disinterested or even seem unapproachable.
I recall seeing this blasian baddie in Whole Foods. She had to live downtown Newark or some athlete's girlfriend. I was shopping for cheese and she was getting fresh pizza made. I broke stride and walked over the pizza station and talked to shorty. She was on her phone but I told her I didn't have my phone but wanted to look up if the cheese I was buying can melt on pizza. This was the intro. We had a conversation about cheese and morphed into talking about yogurt , I was dropping knowledge on cheese and she put me on to Noosa yogurt. By time her order was ready I could see she was interested because I didn't do the typical shyt she expected or was used to but I didn't push for her number but I planted that seed of interest. I figure I would run into her again in that Whole Foods.

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I tried to get my uber drivers number about a year ago. She pulled over and kicked me out :mjcry:
Protip: you already had it:shaq:
At least that's how the Lyft app works I think:patrice:
 

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I get approached. I tried online dating and it was too much to keep up with. I like meeting people organically. I smile often so men usually feel comfortable approaching.
Boom there it is. Brehs have to realize that if a women is interested she will send choosing signs. Women will do little things like stare at you a lil too long, smile at you or make her way near you to make the approach easier. They ain't gonna flat out approach you. But will make the approach as easy as she can because she is interested. I have seen it. If a women ain't sending choosing signs she will reject you.
 

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The better looking the girl the less likely they are to be approached, here in New York City I rarely see any model or dime actually being approached by any male. It’s always the average looking ones that get hit on because guys feel they actually have a shot with them
Honestly to even get a shot with those broads you have to be on point. If you are 300 pounds, living with your parents or working in Jimmy Jazz part-time you ain't got a shot in hell with a model looking broad in NYC. You gotta have your "shyt together," as alpha male strategies said. Basically hit the gym to be decent shape, have a decent amount of paper, a decent mouthpiece and personality along with a decent fashion sense. A bad bytch is like winning the NBA finals. You gotta be on hitting all cylinders. If you want a high quality woman you have to be high quality yourself.
 

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Honestly to even get a shot with those broads you have to be on point. If you are 300 pounds, living with your parents or working in Jimmy Jazz part-time you ain't got a shot in hell with a model looking broad in NYC. You gotta have your "shyt together," as alpha male strategies said. Basically hit the gym to be decent shape, have a decent amount of paper, a decent mouthpiece and personality along with a decent fashion sense. A bad bytch is like winning the NBA finals. You gotta be on hitting all cylinders. If you want a high quality woman you have to be high quality yourself.

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Where did that come from? Will never understand the disgusting and hurtful habit of presenting the black man a sex fiend.

You're hearing more ''but why can't women approach" because more women are complaining about not getting the man they want. There's a level of arrogance at play here in that they're assuming the men are interested and just too scared to approach. Sometimes that's the case and sometimes they're just not that interested.
Yall need to stop fishing for daps. I doubt dude meant only black men approach like that but he's probably around black people most so that's what his experience would come from.
 

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I agree with the post bro. All I am saying men have to improve themselves to be seen as a catch for these broads. If you aint got confidence the bad bytch will smell it a mile away and be turned off. Improving yourself will make you confident. If you fat and broke and you think you deserve a bad bytch you are delusional.:yeshrug:
 

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You do not contextually understand what is happening here. Please refer to definition below.


comprehend
kɒmprɪˈhɛnd/
verb
  1. 1.
    grasp mentally; understand.
    "he couldn't comprehend her reasonings, for he appeared to be slightly dense."
    synonyms: understand, grasp, take in, see, apprehend, follow, make sense of, fathom, make out, puzzle out, get to the bottom of, penetrate

Not going to work.
 

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I was responding directly to you. Thats how the quoting function works.

The thread is about men not approaching women and the OP asked for women to chime in. Your comprehension skills are subpar.


I notice you haven’t acknowledged anything in my comment, then attempt to project your ego onto me, by shrouding it in false bravado. Try again.

It's not my job to kiss your ass. Go create a #MeToo page on how men are garbage.
 
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