Are women the ones doing the cold approaching now?

[Oatmeal]

This makes sense actually. It also explains how run clubs have by all intents and purposes become dating apps

My aunt was trying to put me on to that, my cousins met women from them but I don't be running like that, I use jump rope for cardio and lift at home, I seen some of the women at the marathon events and hit the

I'm already walking miles everyday at work and lifting parts of machinery so the last thing im thinking about is running for real.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

@Chelsea Bridge
@bourgeoisie tall freak
@Selena
@Gloxina
@Boujee Bonita Braxton
@CinnaSlim
@Yinny

Is it cold approach Fall? Jackets and boots on but y’all comin with the heat?

nah i mind my business unless there is actually something i want to know/say and that has never been "what's yo phone number ". y'all enjoy though lol

 

[Yinny]

@Chelsea Bridge
@bourgeoisie tall freak
@Selena
@Gloxina
@Boujee Bonita Braxton
@CinnaSlim
@Yinny

Is it cold approach Fall? Jackets and boots on but y’all comin with the heat?

Ofc I’m oiling my knees to reenact the Remember the Time video to the next man I see

 

[Belize King]

Ofc I’m oiling my knees to reenact the Remember the Time video to the next man I see

 

[Strapped]

Are you dismissing the facts that females outnumber men , females are looking for a sponsor, high number of females are falling into homelessness. High number of educated females are unemployed since Obama took office . Please sponsor a black female op

 

[Uchiha God]

My aunt was trying to put me on to that, my cousins met women from them but I don't be running like that, I use jump rope for cardio and lift at home, I seen some of the women at the marathon events and hit the

I'm already walking miles everyday at work and lifting parts of machinery so the last thing im thinking about is running for real.

Yeah, Run Clubs have been the easy lay-up for dating for like over a year now. From my experience, women outnumber men in most Run Clubs because men tend to either do cardio solo or with their friends. It's legitimately damn near impossible to join a Run Club and not get a date - at the end of every meet women will just ask you for your details under the pretense of making it easier to meet-up next time. There are some Run Clubs that go in to weekend runs with +100 members, with again, the majority being women

The thing is, Run Club dating became such a big thing this year because as usual nikkas started making IG reels of them getting a bunch of numbers and/or TikToks of the women they were running through (pun intended). It then became a thing on socials that brehs were joining Run Clubs to smash hoes, which kinda made it hot on some "these guys aren't even here to run just to fukk" tip. But all you really need to do is join one and kinda just find a girl you like and keep pace with, especially as a newbie (you also don't have to go to every meet-up)

 

[cyndaquil]

As stated, I get approached every time I go out - but it's in settings for it bars and social gatherings. Back to back cold approaching on the street hasn't really registered often even for me, and I've been described as handsome my whole life. Women, even when you look good - don't generally approach on the street like that because more often than not, they're either shy and/or afraid of rejection. I don't know, the volume at which it has been happening to me recently sparked the thread

don't be heated with me brehs

All the places you mentioned there's alcohol being served. Dont be this dense about this breh

Liquid courage

 

[Fresh]

yes

especially younger women OP

I'm in my early 40s, went to the mall last week without shaving and my grey hairs showing, lol
anyway this white girl in her 20s in Barnes and Nobles stared me up and down, smiled, spoke, and tried to spark a conversation. She was cute too, nice flat stomach showing etc. But I was perplexed because I'm old with my gray hairs showing so I left, lmao, oh well.

a few months ago I went out, clean shaven so I looked early 30s, lol, anyway this cute dark skin chick with big beautiful eyes, also in her 20s, approached me

I think the young women don't give af about approaching men if they like them, and I ain't mad, my old ass gon eat, hope the young brehs out there take advantage

 

[010101]

natural*

 

[re'up]

It happens more where alcohol is being served, or just when they are drinking, for sure. In public, like straight on the street, sober, mostly women will just meet my gaze, but you still have to break the ice/get their attention, and sometimes you can't. That's why bars/clubs/lounges provide the context, but it's almost like an oppressive one, because everyone is mainlining the validation. Almost like a dating app like someone said.

In my experience, the "baddest" ones in the club, the ones with the pornstar chest and the BBL, and the tight black outfit, they won't even speak to anyone, unless they are already at the table. but the ones who are cute will get at guys.

 

[Soda Papi]

Yeah I don’t get approached that often

I’ve been called handsome quite a few times and have a baby face (I always get asked for my ID and people have told me I look like a teenager) but the only woman that have ever approached me out the blue have been older woman.

I’m guessing chicks my age think I’m younger than I actually am or something, cause the only time a chick ever initiated convo on an intimate level with me was in High School

 

[Uchiha God]

All the places you mentioned there's alcohol being served. Dont be this dense about this breh

Liquid courage

I don't understand what you're saying here. I said I get approached regularly in bars or social gatherings, which are usually the settings women approach and are less inhibited, yes, and alcohol does play a part - though not all social gatherings I'm at even serve alcohol (I'm not a drinker) - but we're essentially saying the same thing. As are the other brehs in this thread, which is why I made the thread. Outside of these places where I expect to be approached at, another place that has happened regularly is at work (coworkers and staff from other companies I deal with).

Out on the street cold approaching from women hasn't happened registered as often for me. They are usually shy/fear rejection and more often than not give me signals to approach them instead as mentioned previously. I mean, my last serious girlfriend I met grocery shopping and when we talked about how we met she said "I had to smile at you three times before you said anything!". I don't know what I'm saying here that's controversial or why you're replying in the manner you are, kinda weird

 

[Wiseborn]

You ain't even gotta be handsome gang to get approached by women and basically it's what woman want even though they claim they don't want to do it.

 

[Regular Developer]

I havent necessarily been approached, but 1 time in DC with my fellow black brothas was on our way to meet some ladies at a brunch spot, some ladies were like "Hello Kings..." I didn't say nothing back tho cause I felt like i'd have to stay and have a convo with ladies I wasn't really tryna talk to.

 

[MajesticLion]

They always have. Even the shy ones.