are y'all really out here walking up to random woman?

[Balla]

Having to wait to get bytches is the worse.

You’d rather depend on people to hook you up for p*ssy?

Maybe a girlfriend and some p*ssy here and there, but to keep getting bytches you have to cold approach.

Whether that’s the club or the street, you have to.


I was fukkin all the bytches from every job I had, but if I didn’t have a job or go to school at one point, I had to cold approach.

Now I didn’t do the street shyt because that shyt still feel weird to me, but I holla at clubs n bars.

You gotta cold approach to get women.

I gotta work on spitting game during the day and start doing online dating.

 

[Vodun]

When I was in the game women approached me because a nikka had the 3 c

1. Car
2. Crib
3. Cash

Also I offered good dikk and conversation plus I'm funny and witty.

By the way I'm 5'6 breh

 

[AquaCityBoy]

THE COLI ON THAT BULLshyt AGAIN.

nikkaS ON HERE LOVE BRAGGING ABOUT HOW THEY GET APPROACHED BY WOMEN AND THEREFORE DON'T NEED TO APPROACH WOMEN.

BUT WHEN SOMEBODY ASKS IF nikkaS STILL APPROACH WOMEN, YOU WANNA CLOWN HIM FOR NOT APPROACHING WOMEN.

fukkING HYPOCRITES.

 

[Sugarbush]

I won't lie, 2 of the men I messed with the longest got me on a cold approached.

How often does cold approaching work on you?

 

[Nymbus]

She has value, but act LIKE she doesn't; it's a fiction.

A lot of things with women are counter intuitive.

The same way don't simp a woman you really LOVE; she might stop liking you because of it

I see the logic but actually acting on it is another
they'll see through me like a dollar tree Halloween mask
Rather what's been more effective for me mentally is rather to elevate myself to the level my simp brain perceives her

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

How often does cold approaching work on you?

Probably like 10% of the time

 

[Bigblackted4]

By the way, I got my long time girl off cold approaching, I fukked a girl I had just met night before my graduation off cold approaching.

 

[Zero]

Cold approach is bullshyt. Your hit rate will be less than 10% and you'll have to waste a lot of time talking to 100 girls just to get 5 numbers and bang one.

If you want to approach efficiently (30-80% success rate) and not waste too much time on it, three rules:

1. Wait for indicators of interest (girl giving you eyes, coming to sit close to you etc)
2. Learn to spot indicators of availability (basically a girl who's dressed up but looks kinda idle)
3. As a last, desperate resort, hit on girls who are undeniably less attractive than you.

These factors make your approach a "warm approach," and you will get up to 80% success on getting a nice reception and a number.

Nerd ass nikkas trying to bring actual stats and numbers for this? :loldenzel2:

She's either feeling you or she isn't

 

[Sin Simma]

These new dudes aint bout that life. Those days are over.

To be fair, I was never the best at cold approaching... but damn, even in the club back in the day you HAD to just go up to random chicks or be standing on the wall all night.

I remember a key moment in getting my game and confidence up was aiming to get rejected by a certain amount of girls versus getting a certain amount of numbers.

Once I realized that I had nothing to fear it was

Damn I had to see if it was me who wrote this. This was word for word what I was going to type. Don’t know how it is now but partying was that for me, either you cold approach or you’ll stand there for hours myself like a lame. After one or 2 females play stoosh with them, most of them fold. Me and my boys would turn it to a contest, who could wine on the most bytches, bag the most numbers. Listen 10 for 20 is 50% . It’s all about confidence in yourself no matter what. Nothing beats when a female looks behind them to see if you look good and continue to dance. From there, you could shoot your shot.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

It depends on the shooter.

You could either be a Steph Curry or a Draymond Green.

Draymond got that d tho.

 

[sportscribe]

It seems there's a lot of brehs on this site that struggle to get women.

I'd say 70% when approaching women is about looks. A woman can already tell if she's gonna give you that number (given she isn't already in a committed relationship) if she thinks you look good. What seals the deal usually are the very next words that come out of your mouth. If you have a good mouthpiece and don't come across as weird, more than likely she's gonna give you that number.

Some of y'all think you're Rico Suave, tapping a girl's shoulder from behind without her even noticing you, then she turns around, and you talking about, "let me holla at you"...all up in her face like Mr. Dink from Doug.

"Uhyuck, it's me c00n_123 from the Coli. Can I get yo number girl, even though I don't look confident that you'll give it to me in the first place".

So if 70% is looks, then the other 30% is your confidence. Even if you aren't 6'2 and look like a star athlete, sometimes confidence can pull women in. They assume there is a reason behind your confidence. I'm not talking about arrogance either like some in here are claiming. Just exude a masculine confidence.

 

[Marco Zen]

When I was in the game women approached me because a nikka had the 3 c

1. Car
2. Crib
3. Cash

Also I offered good dikk and conversation plus I'm funny and witty.

By the way I'm 5'6 breh

 

[Ohene]

That's never been one of my strengths. Not even in clubs and bars. There is a somewhat super shy side of me.

I can think of random women that have stepped up to me in the streets, tho. One i can think of right now was this short little Haitian freak i met at a Caribbean Carnival years ago.
It was fun while it lasted
But meeting women online or through other friends have always worked out better for me. It helps to have a safe space to break the ice without putting yourself out there like that. Once they are within reach like that and we're both in a comfortable place i can wiggle my way in the coochie somehow.

whatever works.
i personally suck online and in clubs/bars

i will make a great connection with a girl at a club/bar and then hit them up the next day and they wont respond

 

[SheWantTheD]

Millenials brehs...

In 2000s and 90s music videos, men would APPROACH and holla at women on the street.

You nikkas scared on some shyt awkward. You gonna ignore a bad shorty cause y'all ain't meet in a specific setting?

 

[Vodun]

My game is metaphysical