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Isn’t it obvious most nikkas on the Coli are? :mjlol: Lonely bitter ass nikkas

No I’m not lonely. Me and my girl usually go to movies, concerts, plays, museums and restaurants in the city a couple times a month. I’ll get up wit the homies and play basketball/hockey/soccer a few times a month as well.

Everyone been busy wit conflicting schedules but we still pull up at each other crib to smoke or hve a drink maybe once or twice a month as well. Me and the homies usually plan a yearly cottage or out of town trip and we been doing it successfully going on 5 years now.

I’m not even that social I only keep up with 5-6 close friends but they’ve been close to me the past 15-20 years +. I think it’s important to maintain relationships with people you enjoying experiencing life with. shyts not always easy cause life does get in the way but worth it. Everything I’ve read or hear from people in their 70s/80s/90s is usually about them regretting not doing the things they wanted to do in life because they only focused on work and accumulating. You need people and relationships to make your life more full.
 

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I've always been a loner, but in the last couple years, it's become more by force. I always made it a habit to reach out to certain people because I loved talking to them. Since 2019 or so, it's either been complete radio silence or just generic "life gets in the way" responses. People I was legitimately close to in 2015/2016 are pretty much dead now. I only have one friend I talk to consistently, and we've been boys for almost 12 years. But we worked on our friendship so we can go weeks without speaking and it won't even be a problem.

Sometimes, people who are introverted/loners don't choose that lifestyle. It gets chosen for them. :manny:
 
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