Are you a loner?

[IVS]

Def a recluse

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

 

[Da_Eggman]

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

Isn’t it obvious most nikkas on the Coli are? Lonely bitter ass nikkas

No I’m not lonely. Me and my girl usually go to movies, concerts, plays, museums and restaurants in the city a couple times a month. I’ll get up wit the homies and play basketball/hockey/soccer a few times a month as well.

Everyone been busy wit conflicting schedules but we still pull up at each other crib to smoke or hve a drink maybe once or twice a month as well. Me and the homies usually plan a yearly cottage or out of town trip and we been doing it successfully going on 5 years now.You can

I’m not even that social I only keep up with 5-6 close friends but they’ve been close to me the past 15-20 years +. I think it’s important to maintain relationships with people you enjoying experiencing life with. shyts not always easy cause life does get in the way but worth it. Everything I’ve read or hear from people in their 70s/80s/90s is usually about them regretting not doing the things they wanted to do in life because they only focused on work and accumulating. You need people and relationships to make your life more full.

You can have tons of friends and still be an introvert. I personally struggle with this. Being around people ust drains your batteries and you end up needing a lot of time to yourself to recharge.

 

[jerniebert]

I have some friends but I mostly just hang out with my wife. I don't like being around a lot of people.

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Is she?

 

[NoMorePie]

I like being alone

But damn.. I don't know how all these people do it.. having like 1000 friends and go rock climbing and shyt every week, and being able to update their instagram every couple days with social events they attended and shyt

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Idk what that is.

Batman/Bruce Wayne is an Introvert.

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[WaveWhisperer]

Yeah, i gotta gf though and some homies that come through when im in town.

 

[Luck]

Yep, at 36 I’m enjoying my freetime. Not running around trying to do this and that when I got everything I need enjoy myself.

Not having nikkas at my crib either like that, just like I told my lady I didn’t pay as much as I did for this place for any other mfs to enjoy FOH. If I ain’t chasing bread I’m chillin trying to get zooted in my castle…which is another reason, I ain’t trying to be driving or out anywhere like that fukk up and vulnerable for some silly shyt. Doesn’t make sense at this point in my life…

Yea it was fun kicking it and chasing hoes but now that shyt played out to me. Plus these nikkas be involved with too much drama for me, straight up.

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Yeah, i gotta gf though and some homies that come through when im in town.

Why do you have a gf?

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Isn’t it obvious most nikkas on the Coli are? Lonely bitter ass nikkas

No I’m not lonely. Me and my girl usually go to movies, concerts, plays, museums and restaurants in the city a couple times a month. I’ll get up wit the homies and play basketball/hockey/soccer a few times a month as well.

Everyone been busy wit conflicting schedules but we still pull up at each other crib to smoke or hve a drink maybe once or twice a month as well. Me and the homies usually plan a yearly cottage or out of town trip and we been doing it successfully going on 5 years now.

I’m not even that social I only keep up with 5-6 close friends but they’ve been close to me the past 15-20 years +. I think it’s important to maintain relationships with people you enjoying experiencing life with. shyts not always easy cause life does get in the way but worth it. Everything I’ve read or hear from people in their 70s/80s/90s is usually about them regretting not doing the things they wanted to do in life because they only focused on work and accumulating. You need people and relationships to make your life more full.

I'll beat you ass

 

[WaveWhisperer]

Why do you have a gf?

same reason it was decided for you to be a squirrel that can fly breh.

 

[Patrick Kane]

You can have tons of friends and still be an introvert. I personally struggle with this. Being around people ust drains your batteries and you end up needing a lot of time to yourself to recharge.

Likewise. Nowhere in my post did I indicate that I don’t enjoy my alone time - I was just stating that I think it’s important to have a life with relationships that you maintain and don’t go too inward closing out the outside world. That’s where loneliness and depression creep in and as men, we are plagued with this in our 50s, 60s if we don’t actively seek these experiences. I’m gonna be the nikka in my 50s still hooping busting these young boys ass on the court

 

[Robo Squirrel]

same reason it was decided for you to be a squirrel that can fly breh.

Real ish.