Are you a loner?

humminbird

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just a question....

how many of you loner nikkas actually get decent paper?

like... how do you maintain a network for business...

or do you just work a 9-5 and turn off the hustle when you get home?

:jbhmm:
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ZEupTWN

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just a question....

how many of you loner nikkas actually get decent paper?

like... how do you maintain a network for business...

or do you just work a 9-5 and turn off the hustle when you get home?

:jbhmm:

Some people are just go getters when they want to get shyt done…Loner don’t mean your anti social tho..some of the most successful business people are introverted or low key loner type who know how to turn it off and on…You dont have to be someone friend to do business with them..I guess it depends on the type of business too..
 

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I got one real good friend that I usually hang with but he's usually working or gets annoying at times so I just kick it by myself. My other close friend has a girl and kids, so not as free but I still go over to watch football, wrestling events, and UFC fights, when those occur. And my other friends moved an hour and a half away so I don't get to visit them that often but I keep in contact with my homegirl frequently to make sure they and their kids are straight. Her brother my first friend mentioned and they like family, same with my other boy. My other friends I barely see anymore, other than the occasional holiday or birthday texts, if they even remember. I prefer being alone most of the time cuz its less stressful but enjoy the company of friends if the vibe is right.
 

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I'll put it this way. When the pandemic popped off and they had nikkas in their respective cribs and locked all the stores down, I was on CHILL. I thought, as i drove down the highway with little traffic, that this is what life should be. Super chill and slow paced. My friends and family were legit going insane over living the chill life.

The only thing that prevented me from staying in 24/7 was my girl -- she needs to do shyt all the damn time and throw her money at anything.

Loner, that word fit me better as a kid or a teenager. Now, as a grown ass adult, I prefer introvert.
 

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No, I’m directly in the middle. I’m fine with my own company, but still have interaction with friends almost daily. I don’t go to the club and shyt like that often but I have an active social life.


Pretty much the same i like being alone but gotta keep up that balance
 

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I prefer to be alone rather than have fake friends or being annoyed all the time. Too many two faced people have switched on me that’s why I prefer to be alone. The older you get the less you care about having a big circle. Got friends but don’t “hang” hang out with them.
 

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I grew up being independent young as hell. My siblings were 10+ yrs older, ended up amusing my self.

Used to be extroverted af during high school/middle school/college. Somewhat introverted. Still got that DMX energy for these hoes :mjlol:

But after my pops died and almost getting stabbed in Liberia, I become more avoidant of people.

Got friends and some acquaintances, I mostly prefer to do my own thing by my own terms.

Used to be terrified of going to bars/clubs alone, funny thing is women will actually strike up conversations/homies will chop it up. That's cool.

Traveling alone is a relief. Discovering and exploring on your own is like adventure time type of shyt. Just gotta be careful cause we live in a dog eat dog world, you feel me.

More selective with my time and company though. Protect your energy. Being drained is mentally costly juu heard!
 

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Some people are just go getters when they want to get shyt done…Loner don’t mean your anti social tho..some of the most successful business people are introverted or low key loner type who know how to turn it off and on…You dont have to be someone friend to do business with them..I guess it depends on the type of business too..
My question wasn't for a general response. It was asking specifically to loners to get info on how they manage their network while being a loner.

Most successful people and CEOs are not loners. That's definitely an exception to the norm.

Close knit of friends and family
One does all the networking shyt

What industry are you in?
 
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