Are you harder on your sons than daughters?

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I dont know if its a such thing as being harder on your sons, what might be perceived as being "harder" is just a father giving his son the tools he needs to be the best man he can be. You might not see it as a kid but you'll appreciate it as you get older, I know I did.
 

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I dont know if its a such thing as being harder on your sons, what might be perceived as being "harder" is just a father giving his son the tools he needs to be the best man he can be. You might not see it as a kid but you'll appreciate it as you get older, I know I did.
i think ideally the mother would be a little "harder" on the daughter.
 

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let your daughter do whatever she want to do as a kid, that way she wont rebel as a teen
Youre trolling but my dad was hands off like that when I was younger and I never smoked, drank, or partied reckless. Whereas all my friends who were watched like hawks went buck wild. When I got out the house I had been doing what I wanted to do my whole life, no need to wild out.

My dad saw me coming in at 2am once (was at a friends house doing a project and fell asleep) and hit me with the :leostare:

I walked back to my room like :sas2:
He went back to the Discovery channel like :smugdraper:
 

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Youre trolling but my dad was hands off like that when I was younger and I never smoked, drank, or partied reckless. Whereas all my friends who were watched like hawks went buck wild. When I got out the house I had been doing what I wanted to do my whole life, no need to wild out.

My dad saw me coming in at 2am once (was at a friends house doing a project and fell asleep) and hit me with the :leostare:

I walked back to my room like :sas2:
He went back to the Discovery channel like :smugdraper:
don't necessarily agree with letting your children be completely free but i do believe in giving them some loose.

also, i think it depends on the temperament on the child. when it comes to raising children, i don't think one way fits all.
 

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Yep but what does us not respecting them do to them?

Thats like saying Blacks should respect Whites. There needs to be an emphasis. Only dudes can end sexism. Only Whites can end racism. Some dont wanna hear that.

I do agree and practice that respect is given on contact despite how you are dressed, what your race/gender/religion is.

I don't think men and women are the same as blacks and whites.

Yep but what does us not respecting them do to them?
I don't respect people who don't respect me. I bet other people think that way too. I bet if both genders were learning how to treat the opposite sex instead of one, things would probably be different.
 

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I don't think men and women are the same as blacks and whites.


I don't respect people who don't respect me. I bet other people think that way too. I bet if both genders were learning how to treat the opposite sex instead of one, things would probably be different.
I meant off first contact. Im not going to disrespect you cuz of your race/gender/religious beliefs right off the bat. Everyone is equal in my eyes ..until they disrespect me or I hear they did some inhumane shyt.
 
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