One thing I learned over the years is that there aren't many true friends that you can tell all your problems and expect them not to talk about it to someone else in your circle...people will also secretly enjoy your misery with a smile on their face and not even care about what you're going thru as you confide to them...so I learned its best to keep problems to yourself and God and maybe your mom and dad but sometimes they can't understand and third statements makes things worse so ultimately its best to keep it to yourself but only thing to that is there can be a breaking point where it all comes out..when this happens its pivotal to be with someone who won't look at you different for becoming a wreck for a few minutes lol
