Are you truly over your ex?

[seymour cake]

Similar situation. Best advice I can give you is do what your heart tells you to do and not care what society says you should do. If you really love this chick and y'all can get to the bottom of why the cheating occurred you can fix things. But only proceed if you're both mature about communication etc. Cheating sucks but it doesn't always have to be a death sentence in a relationship.

Yea it's crazy she said it only happened once with a dude she knew for a long time.. said they was drinking on some shyt she tried to leave then it "just happened"and it wasn't planned..I believe her but still, I probably won't trust her again..

I want to talk to the dude and if he say it happened more than once fukk her..

Nah fukk that I'll rather be single

 

[Peak]

Not truly and I feel it's having a detrimental effect on my new relationship.

 

[Kaii-genesis]

I will always love my ex, always. We were bad for each other though, so I may not be over it but I sure as hell am not putting myself through that shyt again. We both understand this.

 

[Rawtid]

Not being over the person and not being over the feelings they created are two different things, imo. I miss sleeping next to him at night or telling him useless shyt that women share with their spouses and shyt like that. I also know I won't be able to just find that in anyone but I don't miss him really because we aren't on the same page about what we want from each other.

I think when you desire a relationship and you're not in one you never get over those feelings until you find a person you actually want to be with. Until then you just think about the last person you were with.

 

[MoonGoddess]

I was over him before we broke up.

 

[Diondon]

Nope... that is why I'm single now.

Just trying to work through some things so when I do start a new relationship they won't be getting a bag lady.

Awwwww

 

[Diondon]

Man I been wit my ex for 4 years, I just found out she cheated on me once wit some dude.. I broke off the relationship so we stopped talking for like 4 months..

We just started talking again and fukking and now she telling me how she always crying and miss me, I can't front I miss her and still love her, even on the 4 months off..when I was fukking with other hoes I still had feelings for my ex..

I told myself I won't take her back fukk a relationship but lately Idk brehs, when we be chilling I kinda feel like starting it back up..

But here's the catch I cheated on her once on some after the club shyt but I never told her till this day.. that's why I kind of want to give her a second chance cause I did it to.. but she don't know I cheated..

So should I tell her the truth and say I cheated and get back Together Or should I take it to the grave and don't say nothing never?

I could just keep fukking and shyt without the title but I low-key don't want to see her wit nobody else lol..

Help me brehs What would you do?

I be playing the victim like aww you cheated you not loyal I can't do the relationship thing..but I really want to be with her,but at the same time she did cheat so I shouldn't get back wit her.. I really don't know what to do b.

If it were me, no I wouldn't take her back and no I wouldn't tell her.
If she didn't know like you claimed, she had no reason to cheat sooooo.........

 

[The Mad Titan]

exes be holding on like

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

I'm over the person I broke up with but not person I met. I miss the good times but nothing will ever make me want to go back to her, the damage is far too great and not even god himself could repair it.

Looking forward I don't see myself dating and if I do ,I know I won't be able to fully give my all because I gave all I had in my last relationship thinking more and more of becoming a hermit.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Duhhh, lol, that's the problem. I don't want to do that. I enjoy talking to him.

We broke up because we weren't compatible. Couldn't even spend the day together without arguing.

So basically you was nagging him to death?

Man I been wit my ex for 4 years, I just found out she cheated on me once wit some dude.. I broke off the relationship so we stopped talking for like 4 months..

We just started talking again and fukking and now she telling me how she always crying and miss me, I can't front I miss her and still love her, even on the 4 months off..when I was fukking with other hoes I still had feelings for my ex..

I told myself I won't take her back fukk a relationship but lately Idk brehs, when we be chilling I kinda feel like starting it back up..

But here's the catch I cheated on her once on some after the club shyt but I never told her till this day.. that's why I kind of want to give her a second chance cause I did it to.. but she don't know I cheated..

So should I tell her the truth and say I cheated and get back Together Or should I take it to the grave and don't say nothing never?

I could just keep fukking and shyt without the title but I low-key don't want to see her wit nobody else lol..

Help me brehs What would you do?

I be playing the victim like aww you cheated you not loyal I can't do the relationship thing..but I really want to be with her,but at the same time she did cheat so I shouldn't get back wit her.. I really don't know what to do b.

The one thing I could never be in my relationship is a hypocrite

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

So basically you was nagging him to death?

The one thing I could never be in my relationship is a hypocrite

No, he was nagging me to death. I've never met a guy who felt he had to talk about every damn thing and then get upset when I didn't feel like talking. It was very annoying.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Over my ex? No not even close.

 

[The ADD]

1. Y'all got some shyt to deal with
2. @SJUGrad13 walk away breh
3. This would be the perfect thread for a Karrueche alias

 

[O.T.I.S.]

No, he was nagging me to death. I've never met a guy who felt he had to talk about every damn thing and then get upset when I didn't feel like talking. It was very annoying.

Yeah I assumed it was you because usually it's the woman

But this is hilarious for some reason

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

No, he was nagging me to death. I've never met a guy who felt he had to talk about every damn thing and then get upset when I didn't feel like talking. It was very annoying.

But if you don't tell him what's on your mind how's he supposed to know? Men aren't mind readers, we aren't magically supposed to know what you're thinking