Are You Your Mom/Dad’s Bailout Plan?

[Estarossa]

Nope… my dad is caked up and married to a younger woman and my mom has made the proper arrangements so that she won’t be a burden in her old age.

My grandmother, who just passed last week R.I.P, didn’t have any of her affairs in order and just expected my mother and aunts to take care of her. This resulted in them having to put their lives on hold and scramble to figure out what needed to be done when she could no longer care for herself. My mother would never put that on me.

 

[3rdWorld]

Whatever it takes..

Only cacs put their parents in nasty old age homes. They literally don't give a fukk about their old parents.

 

[richaveli83]

Yes

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

Naw… they loaded

 

[Joe Budden]

My cousin thought he was going to travel the world stunting for the gram till his parents told him they’re retiring in two years and he needs to learn the restaurant business.

 

[SupaDupaFresh]

Nope.

My family kinda messed up. No cap. Real spit wit my brehs.



My mom and truthfully all the adults in my family care more about their own money and the attention they receive from the family than genuinely connecting with their kids or family or supporting one another. I come form one of those

I have no plans to support, carry, or try to connect with any of them on that level, and neither does my sister at the moment. I can see them all, as they reach closer to those pearly gates and realize in the end life is about the connection and journey we shared with loved ones, crying for attention, guilt tripping and shaming everyone on some "I provided everything for you" nonsense as their way of compensating for their failures and begging for help rather than just being human and admitting to some errors. But I hope they ride out into the sunset with their savings, pensions, bank statements, houses, cars and whatever else they value most and let that be their company in those last days instead.

I'm focused on looking out for my generation, because I come from a selfish set of folks who abandon you if you're not this perfect rhodes scholar with a successful career to brag about.

My father on the other hand hardly has shyt other than his house and I can't wait to watch him die sick and alone.

Yeah I had it super rough brehs.