Are your 30's mad lonely... pause ?

[DirtyMoney]

It’s about to be

About to dip on everyone in a minute

nikkas forget how it was when they needed shyt and who helped them get on their feet

Fam thinking they better because they married or some extra shyt

nikkas blowing up my phone on some irrelevant shyt, giving me their opinions freely, then seemingly dismissing shyt im going throough or questioning my credibility when I know mpre shyt then them in less time.

Don’t hit me up with your opinions if you don’t care for mines because I sure as fukk don’t hit nobody up for advice or opinions unless it’s for someone else

You right on the money.

Don't wait for life to happen

Make it happen

100% on this wave. Hard with a BM and a child but thats the dream.

 

[1 other person]

Yea. Im thinking of finding some churches I might like. Not because I have a strong desire to be in a church setting. But because I can help others and feel apart of something. Just something to do really.

 

[MikelArteta]

loneliness a state of mind, im 32 going to africa in a week and a half by myself

 

[1 other person]

I think once you get a certain age. You have to compromise a lot if you want a serious.comitted relationship. A lot of people single up untill their mid 30s may never have a commited relationship.

 

[DrX]

once I get settled I want to do more charity work. Maybe feed the homeless

 

[ConPHIdential]

Thread is depressing af.

My homie and I we’re discussing this and it’s very sad to see how friends/circles disperse as you get older. Even with my main circle which consists of about 5 of us, some of us moved away and honestly doing their own thing (and they are successful, btw) so I can relate to what you’re saying but I know I can hit them up anytime and we take trips, smoke, whatever when we can like our younger days.

My main homie though works for the same company I work in which I was able to hire him at my location and it’s dope to know 1. Your putting your homie on (obv. knowing he is more than capable to do the job) and 2. I’m looking forward to the future by this move I made. A lot of people realize as they get older, which is what I was discussing with my main homie earlier, that their circle of friends don’t have that same drive/motive/whatever you wanna call it and it’s very true you are the company you keep. Gotta challenge yourself too man and have a vision. Whether that’s work, a hobby, or whatever keeps you going but just gotta keep striving for something. shyt isn’t perfect but once you get a good understanding of life and what’s to come you just gotta play it smart, plan ahead, and find some sort of purpose or it gets real dull.

I’m 27 and in a committed relationship btw. (No kids)

 

[Booker T Garvey]

They're different that's for sure

 

[monsterpreneur]

I think once you get a certain age. You have to compromise a lot if you want a serious.comitted relationship. A lot of people single up untill their mid 30s may never have a commited relationship.

This. It’s odd when you think about it. However, then again people are working more than ever.

 

[bennyfein]

You need a good woman in your life. There's no way around it, meaningful relationships are important

 

[UWasntThere]

Another case of GMB HOH gone wrong. Maybe you just not cut out for this life @DirtyMoney - One minute you're posting threads reppin the set and the next minute its "I'm so lonely". Give up the fake player persona. Just embrace your inner simp, get married, knock her up, and live your life.

Spoiler

Na fukk all that. My blue faces keep me company at night

 

[King Jae]

Dbl

 

[King Jae]

Dbl

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

not at first but it seems like, for me at least, it might take that turn later on. had a few friends die, others were fair weather. i think it also has something to do with what point i'm at, personally, in life. like, i was isolated in my twenties out of pure desire and, in part, necessity. i don't think i have to go out here alone anymore but i'm realizing, at the same time, i'm not too happy with others around me either. so, to prevent a cycle of strife, i'll carry my baggage by myself for the time being...

 

[Carlton Banks]

Loneliness means you aren't busy enough

 

[sayyestothis]

Love my 30s.

Don't talk to losers I grew up with

Have a wife

Have kids that are amazing

Make more money the I ever thought I could

Have a home

No debt

Life is amazing in my 30s

And yes. Homeboys have died and moved on but gotta live YOUR life. Bless the dead.