Are your 30's mad lonely... pause ?

[NerdNash]

Yea, but I love my alone time.

 

[Grand Cru Boo]

For me, a lot of dudes i came up with gone. Lot of dudes died and it unfortunate to say but from where I’m from, it an everyday occurance. The few I called homies either locked up or fell off. Some made families and other made babies but I can say I’m doing better than all them. My one man that I’ve been right with since a kid still saying/doing the same dumb shyt and my fam is close behind with the nonsense. At this point, I been rocking with my girl. She realer than most these others out here. You learn that the only person looking out for you is you. Nobody care about genuine relationships. Just a bunch of cats trying to get over on each other.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

wait, you don't want to volunteer because you don't think volunteering isnt for blacks? i wonder what POS raised you...

 

[DirtyMoney]

Another case of GMB HOH gone wrong. Maybe you just not cut out for this life @DirtyMoney - One minute you're posting threads reppin the set and the next minute its "I'm so lonely". Give up the fake player persona. Just embrace your inner simp, get married, knock her up, and live your life.

Spoiler

Na fukk all that. My blue faces keep me company at night

I made the most money of my life in 2016, it was LONELY. when i almost died my bank balance could not bring me comford or non hospital food
I already knocked a bish up. Having money and being lonely goes hand in hand when seeking deeper connections.
Unfulfilled is maybe another word

Thread is depressing af.

My homie and I we’re discussing this and it’s very sad to see how friends/circles disperse as you get older. Even with my main circle which consists of about 5 of us, some of us moved away and honestly doing their own thing (and they are successful, btw) so I can relate to what you’re saying but I know I can hit them up anytime and we take trips, smoke, whatever when we can like our younger days.

My main homie though works for the same company I work in which I was able to hire him at my location and it’s dope to know 1. Your putting your homie on (obv. knowing he is more than capable to do the job) and 2. I’m looking forward to the future by this move I made. A lot of people realize as they get older, which is what I was discussing with my main homie earlier, that their circle of friends don’t have that same drive/motive/whatever you wanna call it and it’s very true you are the company you keep. Gotta challenge yourself too man and have a vision. Whether that’s work, a hobby, or whatever keeps you going but just gotta keep striving for something. shyt isn’t perfect but once you get a good understanding of life and what’s to come you just gotta play it smart, plan ahead, and find some sort of purpose or it gets real dull.

I’m 27 and in a committed relationship btw. (No kids)

This thread isn't depressing its truth.

You need a good woman in your life. There's no way around it, meaningful relationships are important

Where they at. They were snatched up by smart young men who put that work in early and got them in their mid 20's.
I'm 30 and most 30 year olds both genders are flabby and have baggage

 

[DirtyMoney]

wait, you don't want to volunteer because you don't think volunteering isnt for blacks? i wonder what POS raised you...

LOL. no volunteering is dope. I am against dogs. The smell.
I do some volunteer work already.
Its one of life's great joys and you shouldn't take away from it by speaking on it as people think you want validation when you say you do.

 

[DirtyMoney]

Damn that one star

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

LOL. no volunteering is dope. I am against dogs. The smell.
I do some volunteer work already.
Its one of life's great joys and you shouldn't take away from it by speaking on it as people think you want validation when you say you do.

i agree.

 

[semicko82]

You need a good woman in your life. There's no way around it, meaningful relationships are important

depend on another person for your happiness brehs!

 

[Coerezmoney2212]

• Mad homies done passed
• Mad homies done fallen by the wayside
• Family members done snaked me and got cut off
• Feels like right now its just me, my career and these bills
• At this point i might even consider a religion just to be part of something..

I feel like. The bold. I'm only 24

 

[semicko82]

I feel like. The bold. I'm only 24

Me too! I had to learn the hard way that you have to look out for number one.

 

[Coerezmoney2212]

Me too! I had to learn the hard way that you have to look out for number one.

Yup i learn that this year. Don't get me wrong I'm not a selfish person" I just learn to take care of myself FIRST,Then I cam help others. Nobody is coming to save you(majority of the time) you gotta put your self in a position to win and maintain then you can become a blessing to others

 

[Marco Zen]

When my life changed I cut off 90% of my peer group..


im str8

 

[Ciggavelli]

This is gonna sound crazy, but do the 12 steps of AA. It’ll help you learn about yourself and grow.

The 12 steps are good for everyone, not just alcoholics and drug addicts.

 

[Carlton Banks]

This some weak minded shyt...

Yeah, yeah ok... Life gets lonely at times, friends becomes snakes, women become devil's....blah blah blah... The question is what you gonna do about it?

"I was in the hospital and nobody came "

nikka, this reality. This should be nothing but motivation for you to get the bigger bag. At the end of the day, humans are selfish beings and they only want from others what they can gain. You're the same way. We all are. And the shyt will never change. Now what you gonna do about it? cry like a lil bytch? Or get the bigger bag? Every time you feel lonely and in ya feelings that's the devil talking. Making you feel like you need a bytch in your life that won't do nothing but bring ya ass down. Health and wealth are the cheat codes to life. Instead of crying and bytching, there's probably so many more areas in your life you can improve yourself but you not paying attention cuz you in ya feelings. Get to the bigger bag, go vegan, alkaline diet, 0% body fat, invest in a promising startup... Stop all this emotional shyt. Man up

 

[semicko82]

This some weak minded shyt...

Yeah, yeah ok... Life gets lonely at times, friends becomes snakes, women become devil's....blah blah blah... The question is what you gonna do about it?

"I was in the hospital and nobody came "

nikka, this reality. This should be nothing but motivation for you to get the bigger bag. At the end of the day, humans are selfish beings and they only want from others what they can gain. You're the same way. We all are. And the shyt will never change. Now what you gonna do about it? cry like a lil bytch? Or get the bigger bag? Every time you feel lonely and in ya feelings that's the devil talking. Making you feel like you need a bytch in your life that won't do nothing but bring ya ass down. Health and wealth are the cheat codes to life. Instead of crying and bytching, there's probably so many more areas in your life you can improve yourself but you not paying attention cuz you in ya feelings. Get to the bigger bag, go vegan, alkaline diet, 0% body fat, invest in a promising startup... Stop all this emotional shyt. Man up

This!