Are your 30's mad lonely... pause ?

[Micky Mikey]

Could not agree more. Mindfulness is true spirituality.

This book changed my life

I will check that out . the power of now is what did it for me

what truth

the nature and meaning of existence.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Do you have friends because that because this thread is about being lonely

None that live near me but I was never really the type of breh who got lonely in the first place so it's .

 

[DarkmanX]

Are you on good terms? If you have family in your corner you shouldn't be lonely.

Well growing up i was raised by a young single mother. Havent seen my pops since i was an infant. Had no siblings (until i was a teenager)
or close family where im at too. Im sure that played apart of me being lonely since im kinda used to it.

But i guess we're close. Fam is fam but im thinking you (read: i) need fam and friends outside of just the usual moms, brother/sister fam part. Its different, at leats for me.

So ive been feeling the need to have some friends or something.
ive been thinking about maybe needing a family (wife/girl, kids etc). But tbh ive never really been in a
relationship like that.

As you can tell i have issues..

 

[Da_Eggman]

Yep

 

[blockburna420]

 

[Yinny]

No. I have less company but when I really assess what I went through and who I was there for/not returned, I prefer peace and a small circle. I even cut off family.

Honestly that sounds like a fair trade to me

Whichever breh pointed out about people spouting unsolicited opinions and thinking you want/need what they have when they don’t even want it was spot on. And getting upset when you let them know yours- uh huh okay.

People are NOT happy, and it’s frankly not my problem.

 

[Ski Mask]

8 months before i hit the 3 0, and i have come to the realization that my time is better spent on cultivating a career that will give me financial freedom cause whether i got an undiagnosed mental issue or i just dont have the energy to socialize, i dont see my self having many if not any personal relationships in my life in my 30s and beyond. Friends(more like associates) come and go, moved 2000 miles away from family and dating just isnt for me

So i rather have money to keep a roof over my head, jars full of weed and wax, and video games to keep me satisfied.

 

[shutterguy]

Nope, I got enough to keep me busy between photography, motorcycling, home theater, and social events. Honestly as I have gotten older, my circle has gotten smaller and I like it. Peeps and family will fall off sometimes, nothing you can do about it.

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Nah 30s been lit for me so far
Only 31 tho

 

[sayyestothis]

There's always a difference from being lonely and alone...

Family is who you make it, not who u born to...

fukk it and make life work on ur terms...

 

[WaveMolecules]

Im lonely but church is a crutch.

Seek something tangible. Set goals.

Im losing weight, working out, cutting back on alcohol, etc.

Getting right with yourself starts with the body.

i met my wife exactly 2 weeks after this post.

 

[SNYC]

30s?

 

[Redwood]

Hell nah if you're the loner type