#areyouokpawg?

[GiGi]

So basically you date out and dont concern yourself with black men and only concern yourself with black women.

The black men who date out dont concern themselves with black women and only concerns themselves with black men.

Then you both are hurting the black community by promoting the separation of the black group into genders when we are already small and are only 13% of the population.

Frankly your no better than those black men who date white women.

I have no problem with black men who date white women. I have a problem with black men who put white women on a pedestal and bash black women.

Also, why do you ONLY reserve your "lectures" for black women who date out?

 

[Blackout]

I have no problem with black men who date white women. I have a problem with black men who put white women on a pedestal and bash black women.

Also, why do you ONLY reserve your "lectures" for black women who date out?

Either way your actions of not caring for the black brothas separates our group into genders which weakens the black community just like those black men who go with white women and dont care about black women separates and weakens the black community.

I also lecture black men who date out and dont care for black women all of the time.

You obviously dont know about me.

 

[Incogno]

I think that a lot of black men don't realize that women look at how men of a certain race/ethnicity treat their OWN women as a means to determine how those men will treat them (if they are relationship material). The white (or Hispanic or Asian) women who fall for the black men who bash black women have low self esteem themselves and the black men will spend their time trying to continually boost their egos throughout their relationships.

interesting...

the relationship mirrors a superiority complex(hides feelings of inferiority)
inferiority complex(hides feelings of superiority)

is there a reason why this bears an uncanny resemblance to what happened in the garden of eden?

satan(fixated on his beauty as lucifer) deceived eve=superiority complex(hides feelings of inferiority)
adam chose to listen to eve over GOD(isn't a respecter of persons)=inferiority complex (hides feelings of superiority)

and i'm not just talking about relationships between black men and white women...but relationships between white men and black women also

are we being conditioned?

just take out the parenthese..and look at the scenario as just eve and adam

doesn't it still bear an uncanny resemblance to what's going on in the world?

adam pointed the finger at eve...eve said she was deceived by the "snake"...

very uncanny

 

[GiGi]

Either way your actions of not caring for the black brothas separates our group into genders which weakens the black community just like those black men who go with white women and dont care about black women weakens the black community.

I also lecture black men who date out and dont care for black women all of the time.

You obviously dont know about me.

And you obviously have no interest in my point of view.

I care about black people however I also care about my personal happiness. I have discussed MY situation regarding this issue numerous times on this board. There have been numerous black men who are/were civil rights leaders who have/had white wives/girlfriends but does anyone accuse them of weakening the black community?

 

[Blackout]

And you obviously have no interest in my point of view.

I care about black people however I also care about my personal happiness. I have discussed MY situation regarding this issue numerous times on this board. There have been numerous black men who are/were civil rights leaders who have/had white wives/girlfriends but does anyone accuse them of weakening the black community?

Caring about black people is you caring for black men as much as black females and not this care for only black females thing that you are doing right now.

Those civil rights leaders with white women and white whives most likely still cared for black women despite dating out because they fought for the rights of all black people not just black men unlike you who do not care for black men and only care for black women while your dating out.

 

[GiGi]

Those with white women and white whives most likely still cared for black women despite dating out unlike you who do not care for black men while you dating out.

And what are you basing this comment on? How do YOU know who I care about? You know nothing about me or what I do (or have done). So to make the assumption that black leaders with white wives care more for black women than I do for black men is nothing more than you speaking from a place of emotions rather than facts.

 

[Blackout]

And what are you basing this comment on? How do YOU know who I care about? You know nothing about me or what I do (or have done). So to make the assumption that black leaders with white wives care more for black women than I do for black men is nothing more than you speaking from a place of emotions rather than facts.

Im basing it on this post:

Actually, no its not a concern of theirs....but it also is not a concern of the white women that black men are involved with either.

But we are talking about dating and relationships and I have never had a conversation with a white (or Hispanic) boyfriend in which we discussed the shortcomings of black men....EVER. We just don't spend our time together discussing black men. Sorry but we don't. We are focused on each other. I have NEVER had a conversation with a white guy in which black men were bashed or denigrated. And I personally would never allow it. I know that most of the black guys posting here simply can not believe this because you guys spend so much time bashing black women in order to gain "favor" with non-BW. Exhibit A is the racist pawg thread that was posted on this board a few weeks ago in which a blatantly racist white girl had these thirsty negroes foaming at the mouth.

This post shows that you dont care much for black men.

 

[GiGi]

Im basing it on this post:

This post shows that you dont care much for black men.

So saying that I do NOT discuss the shortcomings of black men and have NEVER bashed black men to white men means that I don't care much for black men? That makes no sense.

 

[Blackout]

So saying that I do NOT discuss the shortcomings of black men and have NEVER bashed black men to white men means that I don't care much for black men? That makes no sense.

So its somehow supposed to show that you care for black men when you barely attempt to even support them?

You said yourself that you dont care much for racial issues that involve black men as Ive shown in that quote.

 

[GiGi]

So its somehow supposed to show that you care for black men? You said yoruself that you dont care much for racial issues that involve black men.

Please provide a quote of me stating this....I'll wait.

 

[Blackout]

Please provide a quote of me stating this....I'll wait.

But we are talking about dating and relationships and I have never had a conversation with a white (or Hispanic) boyfriend in which we discussed the shortcomings of black men....EVER.

You saying that you never brought to the attention of your significant other the issues that black men face.

If your going to support them then it all starts at home.

 

[pop]

Has there been a single street harassment video where the dudes WERE NOT black ??!

This is a bad look for us. Their are so many thirsty black men in these streets. I swear a lot of these guys act like they have never had sex before.

 

[AntiHero]

This is a bad look for us. Their are so many thirsty black men in these streets. I swear a lot of these guys act like they have never had sex before.

I remember when i was younger and i used to go outside with my sister, bum ass niqqaz would stand on the corner trying to talk to her thinking that she was stupid enough to fall for their 'game'.

I don't think i've actually seen them pull a girl before or at least an attractive girl.
But on the real, who tf do these fools think they are? .

You're a grown ass man who's uneducated,dresses like a teenager,broke,possibly has stds yet some how you think think you're worth these chick's time. Then when the girl ignores them they call her a hoe or bytch .

 

[Blah1991]

Black men and their c00nery.....Jesus Christ. These dudes truly aren't shyt.

 

[Blah1991]

So its somehow supposed to show that you care for black men when you barely attempt to even support them?

You said yourself that you dont care much for racial issues that involve black men as Ive shown in that quote.

If she doesn't care about issues that impact black men, I certainly don't blame her.