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He was perhaps a lil more blunt than i would care for, but he has a point. Men are damned if they do and dont nowadays. Approach a woman and youre a thirsty creep...dont a approach a woman and you have no balls. Its frustrating...
There's nothing wrong with men approaching women they are attracted to. It's the manner in which some men go about it. Some of these feminist are honestly a bit crazy and are looking for something to complain about, but I agree that men can go overboard sometimes when trying to get a woman's attention.
 

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I have no problem with black men who date white women. I have a problem with black men who put white women on a pedestal and bash black women.

Also, why do you ONLY reserve your "lectures" for black women who date out? :sas2:
What's wrong with putting white women on a pedestal? If I like white women let me eat.
 

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He was perhaps a lil more blunt than i would care for, but he has a point. Men are damned if they do and dont nowadays. Approach a woman and youre a thirsty creep...dont a approach a woman and you have no balls. Its frustrating...
Thats all it is...and the fact of the matter is that we approach women and do actually have some success so we must continue until were in a position where women start throwing themselves at us.

It truly is like baseball. You're not gonna get a hit every at bat but if you can hit a nice .285 and with some good baserunning get a few runs every now and then its all good. This is how the climate is and always has been. Men have accepted our duty in society to be the predator as much as it sucks but now all of a sudden you got some prissy women getting bent? We can switch places if they want to be the aggressors; it isn't a problem.
 

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He was perhaps a lil more blunt than i would care for, but he has a point. Men are damned if they do and dont nowadays. Approach a woman and youre a thirsty creep...dont a approach a woman and you have no balls. Its frustrating...

I understand the frustration of men who DON'T catcall but are simply trying to say "hello". More than anything its the manner and circumstance (if a woman is walking alone) in which women are approached. A usually reciprocate courteous comments like, "hello" "good morning" "you look pretty". These are normal and natural. Its the comments about body parts, sexual references and aggressive approaches that are the issue: "damn baby you are fiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiine, come over here and let me..." "umm I would love to stick my d!ck between your t!ts" or a man who grabs your wrist and pulls you towards him.
 

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Sad that one her site she has this disclaimer "dikk pics, rape threats, and hate mail may be republished for general mockery purposes so send at your own risk. Or, you know, don't send at all."

Not going to lie, I wonder what she looks like QQ
 

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The same way you are disgusted with a man grabbing your arm in the middle of the street is the same way a women will ignore me when I say, "Excuse me" trying to get her attention and say, "he wasnt aggressive enough."

Men are logical creatures and we recognize that its a #s game. Best believe that dude has landed himself some p*ssy by grabbing a girls arm.

shyt just 2 months ago in the club I saw a girl walk through a line of nikkas. One tried to holla using his mouth and was ignored or unheard (loud music). The other? Grabbed her hand and kept tuggin as she walked. Dude ended up talking to her for five mins and probably got the number.

A deer doesnt like them bullets but you think doesn't understand why he is being hunted in the woods? nikkas gotta eat or die.
wow that you think its ok to put your hand on a stranger.
 

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wow that you think its ok to put your hand on a stranger.
lol where did I say that its okay? Read what I typed again. Anytime I approach a women I use "Excuse me"

If there are earphones in 90% of the time I say eff it but the most ill do is a light tap. I'm not trying to startle ppl so why bother risking pepperspray or someshyt.

BUT DUDES HAVE ATE GOOD off pulling a chicks arm and being aggressive. I have seen it. If they hadn't then they wouldnt bother doing it going forward.
 
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