thatdude954
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Saddest part is how she tries to justify cheating


Geezus man.
I'm so sick of the propaganda being pushed by the current crop of women and men, but for right now I'm going to speak on the women.
the lack of self control, the lack of responsibility and the re enforcing of this kind of behavior is really becoming more and more sicking. Its been bad with men, and it hasn't worked out for us now women are on the wave and I guess there expecting better results.
I aint never seen a adult male especially 40's or later, that's that happily single, or in a open relationship that aint depressed on the low or just want to settle down with one woman. Why do these chicks think its going to be different for them.
The lack of self control and push to just do whatever is getting disturbing man, like really. We lying to our generation and our younger generation on how to be happy over all.
Women read articles like this and think "YEAH! I feel the same way"
Chick made something like marriage the focus of her life at a young age , got it and then got bored. Made some BS excuse, screwed over what she calls an amazing dude for a dude that lets her get away with what she wants because no doubt he does. No doubt its some open relationship type stuff...This all goes back to a lack of self control...
This chick say's her bad behavior was already on display soooo, fukk it I'ma do more of it and embrace it long as she aint hurting people.
Get married and into relationships when you really just want to get the D as much as possible from as many different sources as possible brehettes.
I'm not even upset about how she feels, im disgusted at her trying to make it seem like the only way she could have figured herself out is to have married and ruin someone else (breh is probably bitter AF now) in order to "learn" about her self. Justify cheating as self improvement brehs
Guess you can't learn to stand on your own to feet without it not involving sex somehow.![]()
What she said was right though. People spend way too much time worrying about what others will say and they miss out on life. That's the allure of the bad guy. He/She gives of the illusion they don't give a fukk and just do what they do.Saddest part is how she tries to justify cheating
Most important part.After we had been married for all of four months I was presented with the opportunity to have an affair. I made the choice to take it with full knowledge of the possible consequences. I really weighed all of my options and thought way past the "expected" benefits an affair would have offered: affection, attention, and a few screaming orgasms. I knew I would gain so much more if I chose to move forward, and I did.
Most important part.
Uh, yeah she did. .I made the choice to take it with full knowledge of the possible consequencesNotice she say's presented and not I allowed an affair to happen.
shyt is crazyNotice she say's presented and not I allowed an affair to happen.

Melissa is a former personal trainer turned amateur writer and coach. She has a passion for helping women learn to live their most authentic life, whatever that may look like for them
Whats crazy is yall pretending she didn't accept full responsibility.shyt is crazy![]()
I guarantee u she never mentioned her past to the new dude...
Probably said her and her ex wasn't seeing eye to eye or some other bullshyt to make her seem innocent