Bottom line a woman shouldnt make you happy or be 100% of your happiness.The problem why cats getttin hurt out here is they are building and placing 100% of their heart into women. Give a certain % and keep some for yourself. Sort of like a stock....you dont put all your money in,you put in a % and you get a return. Do the same thing when it comes to LOVE.Face it here we are in 2012 and kindess is the new weakness.Last thing you wanna be is a simp sort of like the Allen character from "2&Half Men".