Women "consider their affairs" unlike men, and have "reasons for them"?
People like this (specifically, women like this) are exactly why I'm seriously considering never getting married.
So you want to have the stable family life with a man, AND be able to suck random dikks on the side whenever you're "unhappy", because it's "empowering"? You want men to accept that women will cheat whenever they're "not happy" in a marriage (considering almost every married person has marital problems at some point), and that's it's somehow a good thing?
Answer this, ho: if men are to expect and accept the fact that their wife will eventually cheat after being unhappy, then why the fukk should we marry a woman in the first place...or even be in any type of exclusive relationship with them? Why the fukk should we put ourselves in a position to lose money, property and custody of our kids, in an arrangement where it's expected that the other party will most likely renege on the contract anyway (i.e. cheating during the marriage or initiating a divorce, or both)?
Man, fukk all of these retarded excuses for cheating. I've heard ALL the bullshyt excuses before, from "empowerment" to evolution-related shyt. Let's just keep this shyt simple: you wanna go and get new dikk? Fine. My problem isn't necessarily with that in itself; you can't help what you want and you can't help how you feel. If you honestly think you'd feel happier with new dikk instead of just sticking with your family life with your husband and kids, then go get the new dikk.
My problem is you coming back home to me afterwards and acting as if you're still faithful and still into the marriage, and everything is fine....which makes you a cheater AND a liar. If you're attracted to someone other than me and you want to spread your legs for them so badly, then why the hell are you coming back to me after doing your dirt? Just carry your fukkin' ass and go to the next man, then. Go away, and STAY away. Be real with me; tell me you just ain't feelin' me anymore and you wanna see other people....THEN go fukk the other person. Yeah that'll still hurt me, but at least you'd be doing the right thing by being honest about your feelings and desires....and at least you'd be showing your husband THAT much due respect.
Cheating is a dishonest, selfish act which indicates a lack of morals, a lack of respect and a lack of self-control. There's never a good excuse for it. Oh, he cheated on you first? He beat you? He talked down to you and made you feel worthless? Then leave his ass

; you shouldn't even be with him after that, to be in the position to cheat afterwards.
And another thing: it's funny how these women claim "it doesn't matter what society thinks" when it comes to getting their side dikk, yet it DOES matter what society thinks when it comes to getting married in the first damn place.....or trying to stay married after cheating, and maintaining their image as a wife, mother and family woman.

@ women when it comes to the topic of cheating. With most men, we don't make up these bullshyt excuses. We don't use every minor problem in a marriage as an excuse to make ourselves look less guilty. We KNOW and ACKNOWLEDGE that what we did was wrong, and that the only reason we did it was because: