As a black man, is it wrong to abstain from relationships?

[BeeCityRoller]

My own personal responsibility as I see it is to make sure I'm stable first, then assist the people I keep close. Whether it be family members (who have their head on straight) or other like-minded people. Preferably of the same race, but the militants are blindly ignoring this country is becoming more and more multicultural.

That "Marry a black queen because there are only X amount of eligible black men" talk is dead in the water. The black community has allowed the opinion of the Leftist politicians, Liberal Media, The New Progressive Black Church (only God can judge me), and Social Media talkingheads to take priority over black men/fathers as a whole with any dissent.

Those same people who try to shame you into marriage/black family because they have their own negative preconceived notions of you, will not be there to support you if/when it falls apart even if you were only 10-20% to blame and will put the full brunt of the failure on you.

 

[saturn7]

Brothas have to start living for themselves.

Everyone expects to use us as their personal mule (even within our own Communitah) without regard for our needs or wants.
Don't let people shame you out of doing you.

 

[SunZoo]

Fortify yourself first.

 

[Neuromancer]

You should have no problem. Goofy b*stard

How the fukk do y’all have fun and talk to women at bars and clubs?

why you call him a b*stard?

 

[ShackZilla89]

Live your life man, don't let anyone shame you into anything...because they won't be the one's experiencing any consequences if you were coerced into a decision.

 

[humminbird]

Now you want to shame black men for just minding their own business
Just let us be damn

 

[Vandelay]

If you're going to preface it with "Black man", then yeah...black is always a reference to a community experience. Can't have a community without a relationship.

 

[Ahadi]

Brothas have to start living for themselves.

Everyone expects to use us as their personal mule (even within our own Communitah) without regard for our needs or wants.
Don't let people shame you out of doing you.

This

 

[King Kai]

Did you find a job yet?

 

[LevelUp]

why you call him a b*stard?

You know I've felled back from firing dudes up on here . But I've seen op saying dumb stuff in the booth and the OGS ran him out the section. I had to figure out who dude was and what I gathered


He needs guidance bro. Like a afterschool mentor to take him to the park on the weekdays and throw a football around and run routes. Man I've been noticing a theme with bro.

For one dude acts as if hes some type of authority on here and goes outta his way to be known and IT ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS BACKFIRES.

Got a thousand of examples of buddy being a goofy b*stard, here's a couple though (in my Camron voice)

Dude tries to downplay cats on here all the time.

• dudes say he built like Faizon Love. Yet he say he cut and got hoes.

•Dude has a thread where he trying to obtain a job. Hence the shot at him about getting a job. Dudes in that thread trying to give him solid advice , yet he in there trying to discredit them for trying to give him game. Last page
KingZimbabwe's Getting a Job: Progress Log


•Dude then tries to act like he bagging chicks / and "slamming ass"/high 5ing the box and then has a thread on this
How the fukk do y’all have fun and talk to women at bars and clubs? complaining about the difficulty he has even conversating with women.

Bro then makes another thread talking about taking up boxing. Humble brag and that cool but in the story , he claims hes doing 8-12 rounds with the trainer YET he just starting out. So that's a shot at his own cardio and hes tiring himself out. People like @King Kai tell him hes being taken advantage of and he want to Argue . (In my plies voice)

I'm just waiting for Ugo Ogugwa to drop the inevitable.

 

[KingsOfKings]

You are already living that lifestyle, how about you tell us about?

 

[Joe Budden]

God damn. All the man did was ask a question.

 

[KingsOfKings]

Breh

 

[Supa cat]

Did you find a job yet?

You should have no problem. Goofy b*stard

How the fukk do y’all have fun and talk to women at bars and clubs?

To busy get his asswhup for 8-12 rounds. This mufah Reggie 2.0

Damn

 

[KingsOfKings]

dudes say he built like Faizon Love.