As A Man Can You Purposely Ignore Love?

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For women we all know this is virtually impossible. Y’all can’t live without it. Not up for debate. Don’t @ me

But for men, is it possible to purposely avoid it so long as you’re putting your time and energy into your passions? I know it’s possible in the short term because I’ve done it before, but I want to hear it from someone who’s done it for years.

At 25, shyt seems real pointless unless you organically meet and grow with someone (rare). But other than that, it looks vapid. Rather just put all my focus towards stacking this bread. It’s addicting to see your money grow from you doing whatever you want, not having to consider anyone’s opinion. In a relationship no matter how much freedom you have it’s just not the same. I don’t want to lose that energy.

Spare the nonsense about the right woman, we all know how that goes lol

 

[Prynce]

I think people confuse love with attachment

Being around anybody long enough you gonna develop feelings for them

It's human nature and being comfortable

 

[Silkk]

It's all about the right love imo.

I love my family.
I love my career.
I love my businesses.
I love what i'm passionate about.

Loving someone else rn and opening up like that? Nahhhh im cool on that for now.

 

[KneeGrow.]

Do you believe "love" is a burden or something?

 

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Do you believe "love" is a burden or something?

Romantically yes

 

[ThaRealness]

As long as you have healthy and regular interaction with females

 

[Koba St]

For women we all know this is virtually impossible. Y’all can’t live without it. Not up for debate. Don’t @ me

But for men, is it possible to purposely avoid it so long as you’re putting your time and energy into your passions? I know it’s possible in the short term because I’ve done it before, but I want to hear it from someone who’s done it for years.

At 25, shyt seems real pointless unless you organically meet and grow with someone (rare). But other than that, it looks vapid. Rather just put all my focus towards stacking this bread. It’s addicting to see your money grow from you doing whatever you want, not having to consider anyone’s opinion. In a relationship no matter how much freedom you have it’s just not the same. I don’t want to lose that energy.

Spare the nonsense about the right woman, we all know how that goes lol

It’s where I’m at now and it’s

It’s not even about stacking money but following my passion and putting all my energy into it with no distractions

 

[mortuus est]

no , unless you really have no heart, born demonic

you dont find love , love finds you

 

[KneeGrow.]

Romantically yes

Is it an issue of time, energy, and commitment to someone that's your issue?

 

[010101]

love is a course of action you choose to take you are talking about something else*

 

[KneeGrow.]

More to the point, why would someone you fall in love with and your "passions" be in two separate categories? Ideally, wouldn't you want to be as passionate about developing your relationship as you are about, say, your career? If you're not passionate about that person to person development, is it love?

 

[Rawtid]

No. No one can avoid love.

 

[Jasonmask]

Yeah I ain’t fell for a brawd like that in a hot min. It’s a gift and curse lot of things annoy me about women and people in general. I’m good for a good time, but maybe not for something long term. There’s a temptation out there everyday for me

 

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Is it an issue of time, energy, and commitment to someone that's your issue?

Rather not open myself to any vulnerabilities while feeling this boost that I’ve been feeling ever since coming to terms with the benefits of being single. The freedom makes you feel untouchable. I love that invincible energy.

But I know love often hits people out of nowhere. That’s why I’d rather avoid it. I like the way things are going now and want to keep that momentum. Just keep it real casual with women. I know there are women that can bang it out the park when it comes to attraction, but I rather avoid the passion that comes with that kind of love because it often just burns you. I wanna keep shyt consistent with myself as is.

 

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More to the point, why would someone you fall in love with and your "passions" be in two separate categories? Ideally, wouldn't you want to be as passionate about developing your relationship as you are about, say, your career? If you're not passionate about that person to person development, is it love?

It’s different, you know that. Your passions can only fulfill you. You can’t find fulfillment in a person.