As A Man Can You Purposely Ignore Love?

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That love shyt is for the birds. But naw, I have an EXTREME problem with commitment. I don’t care how much I like you, I’m gonna get tired/bored with you.

shyt ain’t love to me. I call it being in too deep. Cause sometimes you I fukk with a chick and it will be going great, but I know in the back of my mind that I’m not trying to be with them long term. So I will have to make sure to end that shyt before I get in too deep. Cause the longer you go the more you don’t want to hurt these hoes feelings, especially when they be cool as hell. The worst be when they literally don’t give you a reason.

I’m fukking with a girl now. I’m non comiital than a mothafukka. But we been kicking it tough. This last week I noticed she started referring to me as her boyfriend
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Shorty don’t even know that she just sealed her fate. Now I gotta find a way to let her off easy. I know I’m gonna die lonely. I been cane to that conclusion. I don’t give a fukk. Right now I’m fukking these bytches and living my best life

So to answer the question, yes. Love is mainly for women
 

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you sound upset OP hablamelo

Nah, just trying to avoid as many pitfalls as possible..

I feel like the tides are about to turn and I don’t want things that weren’t a thing before to suddenly become a thing now..
 

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We're social creatures at the end of the day. If you want one ride or die, just be open and do that. If you want to skip marriage and kids and just have a couple fukk buddies then do that.

& Can we please stop acting like one can't stack/build/grow/self-improve/whatever and have a relationship with a woman at the same time.

Managing your time is also part of being a man
 

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We're social creatures at the end of the day. If you want one ride or die, just be open and do that. If you want to skip marriage and kids and just have a couple fukk buddies then do that.

& Can we please stop acting like one can't stack/build/grow/self-improve/whatever and have a relationship with a woman at the same time.

Managing your time is also part of being a man

No
 

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As Ive gotten older I realized the only woman thats truly capable of loving you is your mother :mjcry:

A woman's love for a man is conditional on what he can do for her, not who you truly are on the inside. The minute you lose your job is the minute she's looking to bail. This is why women initiate most of the divorces because they dont marry out of love, they do it out of survival.

To answer OP's question, yes it is possible. But be warned if you go to deep with it there's no going back. You'll get to my age (mid 30's) and start to look at women from a cost/benefit analysis to both your financial and mental health and find out that 95% of them aren't worth the hassle.

It is what it is. :manny:
 

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I think people confuse love with attachment

Being around anybody long enough you gonna develop feelings for them

It's human nature and being comfortable

This. Women probably love as much as men we just get attached. After the first time it's hard to be in love again. I could never love a man I don't trust and most men start off with little White lies so it just kinda kills whatever could be. I don't even say anything when I catch the little lies. I just lose interest and kill any potential for anything physical.
 

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My brother's relationship with his girlfriend of 5 years ended a couple months ago

Since then the nikka already took up BJJ and bought his first house :mjlol: he was good at saving before, but now without her burden he gonna be on some young gawd shyt :blessed: im happy for him :mjcry: havin that stupid lil bytch off his shoulder is the best thing to ever happen to him
dont let these hos weigh yall down :ufdup:
 

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it's weird how brehs are so keen on being anti-social to the point they don't see the dead end of pushing away the chances at love and community

just bizarre.

We're social creatures at the end of the day. If you want one ride or die, just be open and do that. If you want to skip marriage and kids and just have a couple fukk buddies then do that.

& Can we please stop acting like one can't stack/build/grow/self-improve/whatever and have a relationship with a woman at the same time.

Managing your time is also part of being a man
 
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