As a man, does hearing that another man cheated on his wife or spouse change your opinion about them

[Mandarin Duck]

I ask cuz my uncle been with his wife for over 20 years and everybody knows he cheats

It's an open secret.

He took care of his kids(They grown now) takes care of his wife,
But he has the occasional side piece
I don't see the problem

 

[1 other person]

I ask cuz my uncle been with his wife for over 20 years and everybody knows he cheats

It's an open secret.

He took care of his kids(They grown now) takes care of his wife,
But he has the occasional side piece
I don't see the problem

Does she know? Is he open with her about it?

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

I don't cheat and I can't respect a person that does cheat on a person I believe u should just break up like a man or woman suppose to cheating is hurting a person uneccasarily and it causes unwarranted problems u could of avoided.


Too many people are selfish and want they cake and eat it too unfortunately in this society

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Does she know? Is he open with her about it?

I'm really not sure.

Like our whole side of the family knows he does, and I feel like he been doing it for too long for her not to know.

I honestly think she does, but he has the decency enough to not be bringing them into their house.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

nah, cause I understand. With all these chics walking around here lookin like snacks, and half the dudes gay, the women gonna be throwing it at real men whether they're taken or not.

and can I blame a man for succumbing to temptation?

So you need a man to be faithful to you, like you were a woman

my point exactly

 

[One]

a up standing good dude who takes care of his business and I hear he cheated on his wife,

So many plot twists in this 1 sentence.

 

[1 other person]

If we keep it a buck. Most married men have probably cheated once.........

I guess you can't 'trust' most people then.........

 

[Lifejennings]

If we keep it a buck. Most married men have probably cheated once.........

I guess you can't 'trust' most people then.........

You can't.

 

[Lifejennings]

How can you be an upstanding good person if you're a liar? And not just a liar, but a liar to someone you say you love dearly? Demonstrates shaky morals.

 

[SupremexKing]

I can't trust a nikka that willingly cheats on a woman he says he's in love with


He might be a good dude, but I'll never know if he'll switch up on me too

 

[beanz]

Depends. If his wife's a bytch who withheld sex then

If he got a good woman who treated him well and was responsible and a good mother to boot then Yea it would make me think less of him

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

nah

they complete dead beat dads tho I don't fvck with'em

 

[Ken Mercilus]

I can't trust anybody that doesn't take commitment seriously, man or woman.

 

[#1 pick]

Unquestionably. You can't do right to your own wife, how you gonna do right to your friends.

 

[George's Dilemma]

It would depend on my relationship with his spouse like if she was fam either through blood or rapport. I typically view domestic situations as, "their business" though. Relationships are complex too and sex is well.....sex. Just cuz a dude cheats doesn't make him untrustworthy as a homie or colleague. He just wants sex. Maybe she's not giving it up? But again thats their business and what happens with them has no bearing on me. So no, I likely wouldnt view him differently.