As a man how would you want a woman to approach you?

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Greet me, pop up at events that I attend. Ask about my wellbeing. Let her body language also convey that she is open to my approach. If I am interested in her, then I will approach. If am not, well there are plenty of other men for her to show interest in instead of me.

So essentially, let her attention and actions demonstrate to me that she is interested in me. I don't need her to come right out and say it, I can pick up on it myself. It also keeps her from embarrassing herself if she is not chosen, since outright rejection is something a lot of women have a hard time dealing with.
You have a wife right?
 

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I understand now that most women arent direct, they use the choosing signals. Since im in tune id just appreciate choosing signals.

But by all means if they are direct then thats cool too
The thing is they know they’re doing it but they never want to come over they will bat their eyelashes a few times and hang out in an area and expect you to talk to them then complain to their girlfriends that dude is oblivious. She doesn’t even want to smile :mjlol:
 

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don't have a preference. I'm usually oblivious anyway. i let a coworker take me out on valentines for dinner. took me awhile to get the hamster wheel jogging and add 1 + 1 on what was going on that day. me sitting across her realizing what time it was :lupe:

had a coworker invite herself to the movies when i was going alone after work. didn't get what was going on till she did the shoulder lean. Another time coworker invites me to her birthday party and i'm the only one from work there. then we party hard and she invites me to stay over her place. I was oblivious at every step until she undressed in front of me.

i could write a book about friendzoning women by accident and having my head in the clouds. Truth is i appreciate when they approach at all.
 

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You have a wife right?
Yes. I am married. Do you think I was always married? Or, are you not astute enough to understand my answer is given on a subject based on my experiences and desires before I was married. It seems everyone else who read my response understood what I meant, since they know I am married. Why are you confused?
 

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Compliments are the best way for me. If a girl gives them right then there is no doubt that she's interested.
 

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Women usually throw out a throwaway line just to start conversation.
It's usually subtle so if I don't carry on the conversation after it can be played off as just a passing comment and not overt rejection.
 

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Considering the different ranges I’ve experienced, all I can say is for a woman to be herself if she wants to approach me.

I’ve had women be extremely direct, which sometimes comes off sexy but depending on the timing, and the look of the woman, it can be a bad idea.

I’ve had women give me their quick 2-5 mins speed dating approach, which on some women is extremely attractive imho, especially when they have very good stories to help you remember them by.

I’ve also had women who just hang around and DONT say shyt thinking imma telepathically pick up on her feelings and do something.

Yeah, I’ll sense what you want, but until you grow up, imma be handling my business.

Chase money not hoes.

The type really depends on how I’m feeling at the point in time.

Maybe I’m just trying to fukk, maybe I’d like to get to know a woman.
 

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If someone I do not know:
Approach me at no more acute than a 35 degree angle so I can see her coming.
Say "Good Sir, I wish to go upstairs. Would you like to join me?"

If I know her:
Come to me directly dressed in sackcloth and with ashes upon her forehead.
She should prostrate herself at my feet without reckless eyeballing me.
She should then present me her application for business. I will review it and contact her
in 5-7 business days with my decision.
 
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