"As a man you can either be fukkable or be relationship material, but you can't be both."
- Thread starter Carlton Banks
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Yeah... For relationships
Westbama Heartthrob
Irregular Zero
Sounds like the Madonna whore complex but directed towards us 
"Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love.”
This might be an explanation for why some people cheat. They can't reconcile their partner as both a sexual being and the ideal mate, so they fukk other people. And they can't get emotionally invested in their sexual partners because of those mental barriers.
"Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love.”
This might be an explanation for why some people cheat. They can't reconcile their partner as both a sexual being and the ideal mate, so they fukk other people. And they can't get emotionally invested in their sexual partners because of those mental barriers.
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Silver Surfer
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@Dap Fishin What you neg me for?
Cuz you a hater
this nikka spittin
Why not exactly?
Pool_Shark
Can’t move with me in this digital space
Relationship material>>>>
Speaking Womanese
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Can you expound on this please?
Silver Surfer
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Treblemaka
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Most women want a man every woman wants but few women want a man most women can get (sleep with). Women love exclusivity. What women find sexually attractive (fukkable) comes in two parts, looks and personality, and unless she has hella baggage you need both on some level to sleep with her. But depending on where's she at in life you can have more of one than the other and still be with her.
A man who is sure of himself, knows what he wants and is working to get it, well adjusted (not an a$$hole), a man of his word, and is discerning with who he sleeps with is relationship attractive to most women by default. Men like this are also relationship material whether they are ready to settle down or not. They can keep a woman but the baddies are more difficult to get/maintain when he isn't rich or physically attractive.
A man who is well groomed, physically fit, taller, and has decent convo is physically attractive (fukkable). Guys that only possess these traits can smash but unless they have the relationship traits I outlined they are usually on a time clock with a woman looking for a relationship and either have to play games with a weaker/inexperienced woman or move from woman to woman
Depending on where a woman is in life (ready to be chosen, retired from thot life, etc.) That man who is mostly relationship material is now more attractive because she's played the game with the guy that was mostly fukkable and she knows the road that goes down.
If you are both fukkable and relationship material as a man you have the most leverage (more than a woman) because you are more rare. She usually knows that and will often do more to try to keep you, especially when she knows you know your value.
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