Asian americans, like any group, we're not a monolith group with the same view points, culture, backgrounds ,etc. The asian experience vary greatly depending on where you grew up. I grew up in the projects on the lower east side and that's different than some well off asian in bayside queens. Theres no asian solidarity, maybe politically there is because there isnt that many of us unless you're in a major city but individually, not so much. Being Chinese, there's so many regional beef and discrimination between us.
As for white people, fukk em for the most part. Theyll be nice to you because they feel superiority but still hold these fukked up views. I know theres a lot of sellouts out there but we know we're not viewed as truly american even if we are born here. So fukk all that ass kissing, there's no point.