holy shyt brehs. trying to decode this identity shyt feels like solving a riddle.
so lemme know if i got this right:
Sex
- a biologist would certainly classify you as a
woman based on your anatomy
Gender
- gender wise, you identify partially with what you understand to be '
feminine' traits
- however, gender wise, you
also identify with '
masculine' fashion and traits
-- thus up to this point you are a "
gender queer" -- meaning you conform to neither the 'male' or 'female' gender identity?
Sexuality
- sexually, however, you are not attracted to men but to women -- hence, making you a
lesbian
The End Game
-- so in sum, you are a) a woman; b) a gender queer woman; and c) a gender queer lesbian woman
that took me a good 10 minutes to put together



and low-key i still cant keep it altogether in my head


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question tho: isn't the whole world technically filled with "gender queer" people? like, for instance, aren't there plenty of women who identify themselves as women but who also like to be domineering, aggressive, etc? what makes them not gender queer? (mind you, im not saying all men are aggressive; im saying that's a trait culturally associated with men but that women also exhibit). Or, alternatively, what makes overly sensitive dudes who embrace crying and emotions not "gender queer"? Do they consciously have to say "i identify myself as part-woman?"