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性恶魔

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it was a sarcastic question. So you're saying that every woman you have been with was a lesbian off top? :troll:
Yes or bi.

so my question is


how come you guys know you arent gay if you havent tried sucking a dikk and taking a dikk up the butt..


using your logic...maybe you should try it to come to a definite conclusion that you wouldnt like a penis...:comeon:
Right?

Do you have a type? What's your ethnic background?
Black. Dark skin. Feminine. Tall.

I'm African American
 

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how do you feel about the divisive topic of interracial dating/relationships? :lupe:
It doesn't hurt me.
Love who you want to love. fukk who you want to fukk. Just as long as its consensual.
Is same sex marriage legal in your state; if so do you plan to get married? Do you want kids?
It's not legal here.
I do want to get married but it's not a MUST DO
I do want kids though
 

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holy shyt brehs. trying to decode this identity shyt feels like solving a riddle.

so lemme know if i got this right:

Sex
- a biologist would certainly classify you as a woman based on your anatomy

Gender
- gender wise, you identify partially with what you understand to be 'feminine' traits
- however, gender wise, you also identify with 'masculine' fashion and traits
-- thus up to this point you are a "gender queer" -- meaning you conform to neither the 'male' or 'female' gender identity?

Sexuality
- sexually, however, you are not attracted to men but to women -- hence, making you a lesbian

The End Game
-- so in sum, you are a) a woman; b) a gender queer woman; and c) a gender queer lesbian woman

that took me a good 10 minutes to put together :damn::damn::damn: and low-key i still cant keep it altogether in my head :sadbron::sadbron::sadbron:

...

question tho: isn't the whole world technically filled with "gender queer" people? like, for instance, aren't there plenty of women who identify themselves as women but who also like to be domineering, aggressive, etc? what makes them not gender queer? (mind you, im not saying all men are aggressive; im saying that's a trait culturally associated with men but that women also exhibit). Or, alternatively, what makes overly sensitive dudes who embrace crying and emotions not "gender queer"? Do they consciously have to say "i identify myself as part-woman?"
 

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holy shyt brehs. trying to decode this identity shyt feels like solving a riddle.

so lemme know if i got this right:

Sex
- a biologist would certainly classify you as a woman based on your anatomy

Gender
- gender wise, you identify partially with what you understand to be 'feminine' traits
- however, gender wise, you also identify with 'masculine' fashion and traits
-- thus up to this point you are a "gender queer" -- meaning you conform to neither the 'male' or 'female' gender identity?

Sexuality
- sexually, however, you are not attracted to men but to women -- hence, making you a lesbian

The End Game
-- so in sum, you are a) a woman; b) a gender queer woman; and c) a gender queer lesbian woman

that took me a good 10 minutes to put together :damn::damn::damn: and low-key i still cant keep it altogether in my head :sadbron::sadbron::sadbron:

...

question tho: isn't the whole world technically filled with "gender queer" people? like, for instance, aren't there plenty of women who identify themselves as women but who also like to be domineering, aggressive, etc? what makes them not gender queer? (mind you, im not saying all men are aggressive; im saying that's a trait culturally associated with men but that women also exhibit). Or, alternatively, what makes overly sensitive dudes who embrace crying and emotions not "gender queer"? Do they consciously have to say "i identify myself as part-woman?"
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holy shyt brehs. trying to decode this identity shyt feels like solving a riddle.

so lemme know if i got this right:

Sex
- a biologist would certainly classify you as a woman based on your anatomy

Gender
- gender wise, you identify partially with what you understand to be 'feminine' traits
- however, gender wise, you also identify with 'masculine' fashion and traits
-- thus up to this point you are a "gender queer" -- meaning you conform to neither the 'male' or 'female' gender identity?

Sexuality
- sexually, however, you are not attracted to men but to women -- hence, making you a lesbian

The End Game
-- so in sum, you are a) a woman; b) a gender queer woman; and c) a gender queer lesbian woman

that took me a good 10 minutes to put together :damn::damn::damn: and low-key i still cant keep it altogether in my head :sadbron::sadbron::sadbron:

...

question tho: isn't the whole world technically filled with "gender queer" people? like, for instance, aren't there plenty of women who identify themselves as women but who also like to be domineering, aggressive, etc? what makes them not gender queer? (mind you, im not saying all men are aggressive; im saying that's a trait culturally associated with men but that women also exhibit). Or, alternatively, what makes overly sensitive dudes who embrace crying and emotions not "gender queer"? Do they consciously have to say "i identify myself as part-woman?"
Yes you have to consciously identify.
You can be straight and genderqueer
You live outside of social gender norms with appearance.
 

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When did you first realize you were only attracted to females?

Do you want to have kids? if so,how do you plan on dealing with the situations that come with that later on?

How comfortable were you in your first sexual experience with another woman?

Does your family know and if so how did they first respond?
 

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When did you first realize you were only attracted to females?

Do you want to have kids? if so,how do you plan on dealing with the situations that come with that later on?

How comfortable were you in your first sexual experience with another woman?

Does your family know and if so how did they first respond?
Around kindergarten? I had to be around 5 when I noticed. I liked boys too then but I liked girls way more.

I do want kids. I guess my lady can carry the child. Or adoption.

LOL I knew what I was doing my 1st time. I was so much more comfortable having sex with a female than a male.

All of my fam knows. They've accepted it. They're more proud of what I've accomplished than what my sexual preference is or how I dress. As a little girl I never wore dresses. I never liked girly stuff.



How do you feel about people who say that the LBGT movement is the same as the Civil Rights Movement? :lupe:

I understand the parallels between the two but i dont believe the LBGT movement holds a candle to the Civil Rights movement due to the years of oppression prior to getting equality.

It's not the same because the LGBT movement is generally for white LGBT. That's who they are fighting for. They still have privilege that blacks don't. They can be abused and discriminated against, but it can be disguised. Blacks can't conceal. BUT black people who are LGBT, they do face everything that comes with being black and all the problems that come with being LGBT 10 times more than a white person of LGBT.
 
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