At The End of The Day It’s On Black Men To Police Our Communities

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They were never married, they just had a child together. If the man wasn't working and the woman was getting a check that says she can't have a man in the house. As soon as the brother comes home from having a beer 10 minutes past her curfew, she putting him out. You know a man is on thin ice with a woman if she paying the bills.

I mean if you got money for drink but not bills
At least keep the house clean, be super involved with your kids if you aren't working, and laying down some good dikk. If a woman can kick you out so easily then that means the relationship was already on rock ground and the love been gone

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I wonder which poster this was...

Me. But my stance was not a simplified “your a jealous incel.”

My argument was that it takes two to tango and that both groups bear responsibility and accountability for the wrong in our community. He believes most black women are the issue and need to be responsible for making better decisions but believes the bm who are contributing to the crime, poverty, absent father rate, drugs etc in our community are few and far between and don’t bear any responsibility for needing to make better decisions too.

We just didn’t see eye to eye and I actually left that little debate because I stopped gaf.

Anyway the consensus is that it’s bw fault. Don’t matter what it is, somehow and some way bw did that shyt.

I hope more of y’all are pawging it up and getting them passports. I want to see more koolaid smiles, two parent mixed families, and bm led mixed communities.

 

[El_Mero_Mero]

I made that Oz thread the other day.

A lot of young men will want to stay on the straight and narrow if they get that weekly episodic reminder of what prison life can do to them.

 

[Shadow King]

Me. But my stance was not a simplified “your a jealous incel.”

My argument was that it takes two to tango and that both groups bear responsibility and accountability for the wrong in our community. He believes most black women are the issue and need to be responsible for making better decisions but believes the bm who are contributing to the crime, poverty, absent father rate, drugs etc in our community are few and far between and don’t bear any responsibility for needing to make better decisions too.

We just didn’t see eye to eye and I actually left that little debate because I stopped gaf.

Anyway the consensus is that it’s bw fault. Don’t matter what it is, somehow and some way bw did that shyt.

I hope more of y’all are pawging it up and getting them passports. I want to see more koolaid smiles, two parent mixed families, and bm led mixed communities.

A great deal of black women of our mothers and grandmothers' generation(s) took the dangling carrot of feminism sold to them by white women who were in a patriarchy that black women were never in and government programs designed by white men to replace the need for a black male provider.

This has happened half a century ago or better, it's not that men have no fault, it's the fact the vast majority of us having these discussions are products of this occurrence and it's time to acknowledge that, which also means that all these terrible men floating around are either raised or rewarded by the women.

Just exactly how many drug dealing, crime committing, completely absent father, black men are there? Whether one or all traits combined?

A lot of our issues are a precursor to the dangling carrot I'm talking about but was much less of an option and largely rooted in the natural role men have as agents of the physical realm engineered by God to protect agents of the metaphysical realm (y'all), longgggg before therapy or emotional awareness was a concept for a man, much less sons and mostly grandsons of newly freed slaves. The great-grand and maybe 2x great-grandsons were dealt what I've always said was the death blow of Vietnam.

Wishing for us to pawg and have mixed babies with Kool-Aid smiles isn't a genuine remark. If true solutions are desired in any situation then accountability/fault generally gets identified, quantified, and assigned. And as a civilized species where the female half has the ultimate say on how far a sexual and/or emotional relationship progresses, and specifically down to an ethnicity and even diasporic group within the species where the female half just about always enjoyed (or shouldered) more agency than any of her interethnic counterparts, black men have some, but y'all are assigned more than 50% for your position in the diasporic group being optional and what's the fruit of the tenure.

How much more than 50% is the question.

 

[Wildhundreds]

I mean if you got money for drink but not bills
At least keep the house clean, be super involved with your kids if you aren't working, and laying down some good dikk. If a woman can kick you out so easily then that means the relationship was already on rock ground and the love been gone

I agree. Remember, as black women got more assistance, the more they said they weren't going to put up with the same disrespect their mothers endured with their fathers. Its a lot of moving parts to men not being pushed out of the home.

 

[TM101]

Yeah, the average work commute back in 1980 was only 6 minutes, now people traveling 2-4 hours PER DAY round trip to and from work. For ONE source of income. The economy is broken.

Am I the only one who finds @Wild self 's posts hilarious?
He says stuff in such a way thats funny because its true.

 

[ISO]

Heroin taking over inner cities in 1955 was the turning point.

 

[Trav]

 

[Wild self]

I thought there were no jobs though. How can people say they can't be involved in the community because they work too much, the in the same breath say there are no jobs? And they have stats to back both arguments.. Help me out here.

Those jobs don't pay enough to live at your zip code.

 

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why did @Wildhundreds get banned

 

[big bun]

You know whats funny my nikka. These dudes dont really give fukk. They just talking Like these hoes. nikkas coached a team, never ref'd a game or nothing. nikkas dont even volunteer to take their little dirty ass nephews to get some Ice-cream.

Exactly.

 

[@OffHalsted]

SYSBM/Samuelites nikkas is all doom & gloom As long as there is housing discrimination and low income Black Folks, the Black Community ain't never over with..nikkas ain't got ain't choice but to live with each other and work it out

 

[Hoodoo Child]

My father was bytchass nikka like you. No, if you ever had any REAL interactions with women you'd know they respect nikkas who speak their mind. They might not even like you or fukk with you. But they have more respect for me than a pandering ass nikka like you. They know yall do anything for p*ssy or validation from p*ssy.

 

[HarlemHottie]

@Dre God Why tf am I on your little list?

 

[CarmelBarbie]

A great deal of black women of our mothers and grandmothers' generation(s) took the dangling carrot of feminism sold to them by white women who were in a patriarchy that black women were never in and government programs designed by white men to replace the need for a black male provider.

This has happened half a century ago or better, it's not that men have no fault, it's the fact the vast majority of us having these discussions are products of this occurrence and it's time to acknowledge that, which also means that all these terrible men floating around are either raised or rewarded by the women.

Just exactly how many drug dealing, crime committing, completely absent father, black men are there? Whether one or all traits combined?

A lot of our issues are a precursor to the dangling carrot I'm talking about but was much less of an option and largely rooted in the natural role men have as agents of the physical realm engineered by God to protect agents of the metaphysical realm (y'all), longgggg before therapy or emotional awareness was a concept for a man, much less sons and mostly grandsons of newly freed slaves. The great-grand and maybe 2x great-grandsons were dealt what I've always said was the death blow of Vietnam.

Wishing for us to pawg and have mixed babies with Kool-Aid smiles isn't a genuine remark. If true solutions are desired in any situation then accountability/fault generally gets identified, quantified, and assigned. And as a civilized species where the female half has the ultimate say on how far a sexual and/or emotional relationship progresses, and specifically down to an ethnicity and even diasporic group within the species where the female half just about always enjoyed (or shouldered) more agency than any of her interethnic counterparts, black men have some, but y'all are assigned more than 50% for your position in the diasporic group being optional and what's the fruit of the tenure.

How much more than 50% is the question.

wishing for y’all to pawg and get a passport women is a genuine solution. If bw are bad decision makers and are fault for what you see in the community today then why stay in said community? It would seem to me that bm would do better in communities without bw. In those communities they’ll have more marriages, two parent households, and men leading… so my solution is for y’all to go to those other communities with other women and leave bw be. Because I can tell you, and I’m sure you know that bw aren’t accepting more than 50% of the fault, even if Brehs want to assign more of the fault on us…

as it stands more and more bw are trying to separate themselves from Brehs anyway. I predict that the end result will be more of y’all going your way too. It just is what it is. There’s no saving a lost community where both groups don’t respect, trust, admire or like each other.