At The End of The Day It’s On Black Men To Police Our Communities

[Wild self]

women need to be held accountable for shifting the image of black men too though. every tweet is about “nikkas” this and that and cheering on their terrible selection criteria instead of correcting their priorities. their statements get 3m views and 20k rts and remain unregulated

i made the 2nd statement because black men don’t only receive negative judgement from our own community but also others because of the culture we’re represented by. we’re expected to be the hyper-masculine monsters of society who always stir the pot and only concern themselves with unconscious degeneracy. bw don’t help this because they don’t humanize us and they see us as disposable

people expect the worst in us and we constantly have to change our behavior to appeal to white spaces as a result. but the catch 22 there is that being clean cut doesn’t fit our collective narrative so your legitimacy will always be questioned and you won’t get as much respect in general for trying to compensate as the safe guy in professional or most social settings. then you get nagged on by your wife for not being a real nikka. so we are already collectively screwed.

average professional black men are losing their voice in the world and will forever climb an uphill battle to lead and be respected by the masses

Damn

 

[Gloxina]

QFT. This is such facts I have said it before that the real elephant in room is most people dont want to sacrifice for next generation, I think most people know that to have real growth and change when talking about generational wealth, usually the starting generation building the foundation is self sacrificing and wont see the majority of fruit. Most know they dont want to put in that kind of work so just hitting a quick lick and "ballin out 1-2 summer is good enough"

Also no one wants to be real and straight up and tell the older generation it might be over for you but you have to look in mirror and self sacrifice for next generation. How you gonna tell all these single moms in late 30s that you were lied to and for majority no one is coming to save you, we can use your story as a cautionary tale for future women tho, will you say this on video? How you gonna tell these local rappers with greys in they hair its over and you need to get a job when they built no skills for 25+ years? Alot of ego and pride got people rejecting any accountability. Good luck tho

This is it right here, and is why I said a big part of the problem is ppl are screaming at young women about their bad decision making and not keeping it : the blame is squarely on the shoulders of the elders who got it wrong and didn’t keep it real when the next generation came up. It’s a fukking cycle of dysfunction because no one wants to turn around and say “Hey, I didn’t know this or that so I made crucial mistakes. Don’t do what I did”.
Instead you have older ppl goading on the younger folks, watching them make the same mistakes and then saying “welcome to the club” when that young person becomes old.
That’s one of the biggest gripes I have with my own mother, but luckily my family intervened to ensure I didn’t do things the way she did.

Each generation is supposed to build on the previous one. Your family tree should literally be a ladder with each generation climbing higher and higher.

 

[tuckgod]

Wow! Watched the entire interview.


This man is NEEDED.

That’s the consensus of any sensible grown person that comes across his vids

He makes the crash dummies break out in convulsions on here and I love it.

 

[skyrunner1]

This is it right here, and is why I said a big part of the problem is ppl are screaming at young women about their bad decision making and not keeping it : the blame is squarely on the shoulders of the elders who got it wrong and didn’t keep it real when the next generation came up. It’s a fukking cycle of dysfunction because no one wants to turn around and say “Hey, I didn’t know this or that so I made crucial mistakes. Don’t do what I did”.
Instead you have older ppl goading on the younger folks, watching them make the same mistakes and then saying “welcome to the club” when that young person becomes old.
That’s one of the biggest gripes I have with my own mother, but luckily my family intervened to ensure I didn’t do things the way she did.

Each generation is supposed to build on the previous one. Your family tree should literally be a ladder with each generation climbing higher and higher.

I cant speak directly to the experience of women but from outside looking in I think the main thing is if there is no man to protect his family and help her in understanding the decision making she will need to make in young age, then someone needs to tell them that tho they are given inherent value young they will be starting out in the deep end of pool because they will start getting offers as soon as there bodies develop, whether they are ready or not mentally, emotionally, etc. That is a tough field to navigate and understand even entering your 20s that the older women seem to not help them with for whatever reason (seeing them as competition, not wanting them to be better than them, etc.)

Its soo many moving pieces to those things to touch on the "cycle of dysfunction" but its very hard to overcome when elders are still stuck in their 2nd childhood and not growing building also. Plus the hiding of certain things and not wanting to lose status in family so it ends up being a family secret that maybe is whispered about here and there. Keeping that stuff hidden does nothing but hurt the next generation but when ego/pride is on line who wants to be the cautionary tale?

 

[RareHunter]

This is it right here, and is why I said a big part of the problem is ppl are screaming at young women about their bad decision making and not keeping it : the blame is squarely on the shoulders of the elders who got it wrong and didn’t keep it real when the next generation came up. It’s a fukking cycle of dysfunction because no one wants to turn around and say “Hey, I didn’t know this or that so I made crucial mistakes. Don’t do what I did”.
Instead you have older ppl goading on the younger folks, watching them make the same mistakes and then saying “welcome to the club” when that young person becomes old.
That’s one of the biggest gripes I have with my own mother, but luckily my family intervened to ensure I didn’t do things the way she did.

Each generation is supposed to build on the previous one. Your family tree should literally be a ladder with each generation climbing higher and higher.

Generational curses. It’s on us to try and break the cycle. Truthfully only repentance, will block demons/entities access, since they need agreement, remember the serpent didn’t make Eve eat the forbidden fruit, he convinced Eve to partake of her own free will. (Some of your elders are masonns, easterrn starrs and have made covenants/agreements that you know nothing about and it gets passed down generation after generation).

Even from a practical standpoint most would have to put in the work, but as you and the breh said, we have a mindset of if I couldn’t get it, then no one is. Also our priorities are warped, particularly the women (The men are Homer Simpsonn). I always hear “My child aint gon want for nothing” and they buy all these useless material items, but will never tell their daughters how to avoid the mistakes (many willingly) that they made, because it would haunt them, seeing their daughter happy and married with a family. (Some mothers do pay it foward tho)

 

[RareHunter]

Just 2 years ago mufuggaz was preaching against “Black Patriarchy”, “Black Woman Erasure”, and “Black Male Privilege”, now its “nikkas gotta step up and lead the community“.

The economy lookin real right now…… real shaky that is……

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Makes even less sense when some of them try so hard to elicit a reaction from BW about their Pawgs.

Insane.

Really they just want to bytch and complain about bw, blame bw, and wait for bw to do xyz. Because it’s easier (albeit bytch made) to point fingers at bw then to look around you and admit that both groups(including bm) have work to do.

Brehs keep talking about how they’re raised to be subservient to bw and are part of a matriarchy… And they’re complaining about it and then in the same breath talking about it why its impossible for them to come together effectively and shake shyt up and take over or leave and go to other communities and be done(like I suggested)…

Decades from now are they still going to be bytching about how bw run the community? at what point are they going to do something if they truly got a problem with it? shyt won’t ever change from pointing fingers and complaining. and to keep it real women don’t respect that from men—they respect action.

 

[Gloxina]

Generational curses. It’s on us to try and break the cycle. Truthfully only repentance, will block demons/entities access, since they need agreement, remember the serpent didn’t make Eve eat the forbidden fruit, he convinced Eve to partake of her own free will. (Some of your elders are masonns, easterrn starrs and have made covenants/agreements that you know nothing about and it gets passed down generation after generation).

Even from a practical standpoint most would have to put in the work, but as you and the breh said, we have a mindset of if I couldn’t get it, then no one is. Also our priorities are warped, particularly the women (The men are Homer Simpsonn). I always hear “My child aint gon want for nothing” and they buy all these useless material items, but will never tell their daughters how to avoid the mistakes (many willingly) that they made, because it would haunt them, seeing their daughter happy and married with a family. (Some mothers do pay it foward tho)

Not gon lie, I wonder a bit about that stuff because that was definitely the case in my family a few generations back (another order you didn’t mention), and I wondered why none of the sons followed and joined as well. One uncle looked into it, but decided against it. And I had a boyfriend whose father was kinda up there with in the Masons and while he didn’t want to do it, he definitely had access to some shyt he wasn’t supposed to and dropped some knowledge…

 

[HARLEM AL]

Because the community is governed by black women


Black men are raised to be subservient to black women and be highly liberal.

Cacs and non cac men wouldn't even entertain this kind of discourse with their women who they see themselves as HIGHER THAN and would tell you to shut the hell up and step out of the damn room while the men are talking.

Black Men see black women as either equals or higher than while black women see black men as their equal or lesser than.

If Black men became the men you and other posters are saying they supposedly need to be, you would be the first to leave/"divest" from the community saying "black men are now acting like white men" because all the privileges you currently get from black men being the most liberal men would stop. Black women can do as they please, say what they want and move how they wish in the black community. You are NOT policed by us. This is a complete counter to every other group of men with their women

You either get in line or you get kicked out and there are consequences for going against the men.

Would you accept being seen as lesser than for better male leadership? of course you wouldn't because you weren't raised that raised that way. This is why it's laughable to say "black men need to start doing xyx" because you would be part of the first wave fighting against it.

And do you know how leaders police or clean up their communities and remove dysfunctional elements?


Y'all are not ready for that and would not be able to handle a full culture and community reset.

Hell 80% of y'all would go running to cacs for protection and to "escape" the black man's Iron "Patriarchal" fist just like how Gen Z and Millennial feminist or liberal African/Caribbeans women do

Don Demarcooooooooo......

 

[HARLEM AL]

These things are GENERATIONAL. Dont waste your life tryna do something that is baked in at this point.. Luckily we have technology to see it is deeper than most think. The dude say in 1970 his father AND grandfather had same issues. Shout out to David Hoffman

All these years and nikkas are having the same fukking arguments......

 

[RareHunter]

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[RaspberryFitted]

women need to be held accountable for shifting the image of black men too though. every tweet is about “nikkas” this and that and cheering on their terrible selection criteria instead of correcting their priorities. their statements get 3m views and 20k rts and remain unregulated

I agree they should be called out. I keep using the word “subsection” to not generalize but after looking at a few tweets and posts… all I’ll say is BW need to check their “sisters” because that subgroup is reaaaaaaaal close to pushing shyt to a place where they can’t take it back (nothing physical I’m implying in terms of the health of the black community.. if we think it’s terrible now, we haven’t seen anything yet)

I made the 2nd statement because black men don’t only receive negative judgement from our own community but also others because of the culture we’re represented by.

Regular BM need to vehemently detest the “culture” and disown it from representing our everyday life.

If we’re on our P’s and Q’s, the negative comments should be nerf bullets to us. We counter it by stomping on whatever fire they’re trying to start and show them PHYSICALLY they are wrong.

Don’t think I’m a contrarian just to to cause division. I’m just not with this “welp, there’s no place for the avg BM anymore” movement. You better than that and so is every breh passionate about this topic.

fukk these bum ass men, the women who want to get nutted in by them, and both sides who got wounded by the men in their upbringing. I stand on that.

we’re expected to be the hyper-masculine monsters of society who always stir the pot and only concern themselves with unconscious degeneracy. bw don’t help this because they don’t humanize us and they see us as disposable

You don’t think we added to or solely put this stigma on ourselves? Or at least add fire to that fuel?

people expect the worst in us and we constantly have to change our behavior to appeal to white spaces as a result. but the catch 22 there is that being clean cut doesn’t fit our collective narrative so your legitimacy will always be questioned and you won’t get as much respect in general for trying to compensate as the safe guy in professional or most social settings.

fukk whatever “narrative” that these old ass dudes set for us in the 1990s. It has been a detriment to is.

Also, we’re clean-cut for the white man… we clean-cut because how the fukk we were born out the womb. Elegance is the default Black Man. Whatever BM or BW doesn’t understand that is lost.

then you get nagged on by your wife for not being a real nikka. so we are already collectively screwed.

If my wife ever questioned why I’m not “hood enough” or a “real nikka”… the bytch is getting drop. There is a SURPLUS of men like that, don’t waste my time trying fake it cause your circle said I was a “good man”

What even is a “real nikka” anyways? Real nikkas don’t even know what consists of a real nikka. These fatherless women have no clue what a real nikka is.. better yet they have no clue about what a masculine man is

… so why the fukk would I allow those two groups to dictate how I maneuver through life?

average professional black men are losing their voice in the world

losing their voice to who? Are we loud enough to be heard? Or did we allow others to be voices for us?

Eventually we’re going to have an uncomfortable conversation about the “average” BM.

and will forever climb an uphill battle to lead and be respected by the masses

Ain’t nobody going to just give us leadership and respect. You earn it by your merit and if they stupid enough not to recognize and follow, let them fail.

 

[Wild self]

I agree they should be called out. I keep using the word “subsection” to not generalize but after looking at a few tweets and posts… all I’ll say is BW need to check their “sisters” because that subgroup is reaaaaaaaal close to pushing shyt to a place where they can’t take it back.

Regular BM need to vehemently detest the “culture” and disown it from representing our everyday life.

If we’re on our P’s and Q’s, the negative comments should be nerf bullets to us. We counter it by stomping on whatever fire they’re trying to start and show them PHYSICALLY they are wrong.

Don’t think I’m a contrarian just to to cause division. I’m just not with this “welp, there’s no place for the avg BM anymore” movement. You better than that and so is every breh passionate about this topic.

fukk these bum ass men, the women who want to get nutted in by them, and both sides who got wounded by the men in their upbringing. I stand on that.

You don’t think we added to or solely put this stigma on ourselves? Or at least add fire to that fuel?

fukk whatever “narrative” that these old ass dudes set for us in the 1990s. It has been a detriment to is.

Also, we’re clean-cut for the white man… we clean-cut because how the fukk we were born out the womb. Elegance is the default Black Man. Whatever BM or BW doesn’t understand that is lost.

If my wife ever questioned why I’m not “hood enough” or a “real nikka”… the bytch is getting drop. There is a SURPLUS of men like that, don’t waste my time trying fake it cause your circle said I was a “good man”

What even is a “real nikka” anyways? Real nikkas don’t even know what consists of a real nikka. These fatherless women have no clue what a real nikka is.. better yet they have no clue about what a masculine man is

… so why the fukk would I allow those two groups to dictate how I maneuver through life?

losing their voice to who? Are we loud enough to be heard? Or did we allow others to be voices for us?

Eventually we’re going to have an uncomfortable conversation about the “average” BM.

Ain’t nobody going to just give us leadership and respect. You earn it by your merit and if they stupid enough not to recognize and follow, let them fail.

The bolded.....what exactly you mean by that?

 

[Ski Mask]

All these years and nikkas are having the same fukking arguments......

This is why i laugh when i see dudes say we dont talk about our issues, when in fact thats all weve done. Almost every decade had a stop the violence movement, feminist "nikkas aint shyt"/mgtow movement and nothing has been done outside of talking about how worthless and destructive we are. At what point do those who wag their finger link up and do something about it? Cause at this point i dont blame those who jump a clearly sinking ship.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

The bolded.....what exactly you mean by that?

Nothing physical I meant the future generation of BM will truly not give a fukk about the community and its issues, and even the future BW will resent their “elders”

There’s a thread on Twitter where this woman posted her young son and his girlfriend’s conversations…. The stupid bytch posted that little girl’s full name — and is nonchalant about it. She also got other folks laughing with her as if it was funny.

People will MURDER you over their child. That shyt isn’t funny. Combined that with another video of a woman performing a act on her son…

Do BW not see that shyt? Like at all? fukk all the jokes about “sisterhood”.. do they not see the women they kekeke with and converse with could easily be their downfall?