At The End of The Day It’s On Black Men To Police Our Communities

[Wildhundreds]

This. It requires many members, including the women and so on in that kid's life and so forth to reinforce any lesson instilled upon them. I used to mentor kids and tutor them and I noticed that while there was some change for the positive with them, their parents had to make changes too to reinforce what I had taught those kids. I had to explain all kinds of things to them about life beyond books and so on. You essentially have to become a second parent to the child but all that can be undone by another actual parent who is, for all intents and purposes, "ain't shyt". It's a multi-fold problem.

In terms of actually policing kids, some kids are on some demon time. One problem in pulling them away from such a life is that they are rewarded for their behavior and have no reason, in their minds, to turn away from it. They still get money, they still get attention, they still get p*ssy (this is important for the youngsters), they still get admiration from some, they still get to be feared, they still get to feel powerful and if they are in a crew, they still get to feel as if they are part of something greater. To break kids from this, you have to convince them away from all of this. Anything negative they merely see it as a trade-off so that alone may not rattle them. So to police, it requires a break down and a taking away of all the rewards they get.

I see it too.. You have a segment of parents that have other things more important than their kids. And its not work.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

Women.......

This is why bytches will never respect you let alone other black men

That’s the biggest part of bullshyt that op and others like him spew

Even if I wanted to(I don’t ) but if I wanted to with all my heart I don’t have time to be neighborhood step daddy and police . Nikka I got my own bills. , career and family and etc.

People need to father and parent their own children and stop them from doing crime from at home

Not waiting on random black men to save them from themselves

I hope when you go in for your yearly check up exam that the doctor touches you inappropriately, since you wanna be a whiny ass sissy

 

[Cornershooter]

You know whats funny my nikka. These dudes dont really give fukk. They just talking Like these hoes. nikkas coached a team, never ref'd a game or nothing. nikkas dont even volunteer to take their little dirty ass nephews to get some Ice-cream.

Lmaooo that was about to be my next comment. These nikkas so fukking corny they try to out pro black each other for daps.

That when you come in realistically about a problem you sound like a c00n

But in real life I know I’m doing more for my small circle than they are . I know I’m doing more for my “community “ then they are

 

[HARLEM AL]

explain this one a lil more because there very few things a woman can do that’ll make a man go off his pivot

They can choose the right men for their children. They can choose not to fukk with dudes who they know they aint shyt. They choose not to have men in the house.

Do I have to post this shyt again?

 

[Mowgli]

Step 1
Focus on your child's education and cultivate hobbies that keep him from being taken away from you by morons

 

[get these nets]

I grew up with a father and a lot of my buddies didn’t. But we just being realistic. We not pro Black grifters trying to get you to donate to their little programs.

People don’t have time to parent other people’s bad ass children who fell off the right path

And people don’t have time to neighborhood watch a community that has no snitching policies and a disrespectf for not only authority but the average black man

My 1st post in the thread was saying that the clock can't be turned back. The ship sailed a long time ago for the reason I pointed out.

 

[HARLEM AL]

This is why bytches will never respect you let alone other black men



I hope when you go in for your yearly check up exam that the doctor touches you inappropriately, since you wanna be a whiny ass sissy

oh You got it fukked up. They respect me more than nikkas like you. Dead ass

 

[RickyDiBiase]

oh You got it fukked up. They respect me more than nikkas like you. Dead ass

They don’t respect somebody that has obvious contempt for them. Your father wanted a son and ended up with you

 

[Stuntone]

More like folks need to be fathers to their kids.

I don't know what man on is square who has time to be playing neighborhood police

TBH, our women have way too many kids too early and with men that aren't built to lead, head a household, community or themselves. It's like our women don't desire a solid man until they've had kids with a few shiftless men.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

They can choose the right men for their children. They can choose not to fukk with dudes who they know they aint shyt. They choose not to have men in the house.

Do I have to post this shyt again?

I hear you.

This an issue BW need to (if they care to) figure out for themselves.

 

[karim]

Hollyweird, drill rappers and youtubers ain’t gonna cut it

Conservac00n babble

 

[Wildhundreds]

That’s the biggest part of bullshyt that op and others like him spew

Even if I wanted to(I don’t ) but if I wanted to with all my heart I don’t have time to be neighborhood step daddy and police . Nikka I got my own bills. , career and family and etc.

People need to father and parent their own children and stop them from doing crime from at home

Not waiting on random black men to save them from themselves

Its easy when it's all hands on deck though. But it shouldn't be on the shoulders of one man IMO. A neighborhood of people looking for one hero isn't it anymore, and the reason shyt is fcked up. And I've come to the conclusion that the reason its not all hands on deck is because everyone working together will expose the problematic people.

 

[Studious one]

We are the only community where the expectations of the family is on the black woman. Where the expectations of the community is on the black woman. Whatever failures that are in the community, it’s the woman’s fault. We are the only community that does that. I don’t understand that. I’m not pointing fingers but I’m just stating a fukking fact. We are the only community where the man is looked at as the weakest link and incapable of strengthening and leading the community. In this very thread, I bet a lot of shyt is going to be blamed on black women as well. Sigh. Don’t @ me either

 

[HARLEM AL]

Lmaooo that was about to be my next comment. These nikkas so fukking corny they try to out pro black each other for daps.

That when you come in realistically about a problem you sound like a c00n

But in real life I know I’m doing more for my small circle than they are . I know I’m doing more for my “community “ then they are

Right... Listen man, I had old heads that looked out for me. From deacons to drug dealers. Ever since 18 I gave back. shyt that is the reason I choose to stay in education as appose to more profitable shyt. But I do other things on the side and people fukk with me. So I never want for anything.

With that said I still can call shyt for what it is. Every mother erf nikka I know dont do shyt for his community. nikkas just talk and continue to fukk these hoes to sleep

 

[RaspberryFitted]

And I've come to the conclusion that the reason its not all hands on deck is because everyone working together will expose the problematic people.

And the problematic people (ranging from every socioeconomic class, age, and gender) benefit from dysfunction

folks still believe being black is enough to be apart of the black community.. and it is why we are in the position we are in