At The End of The Day It’s On Black Men To Police Our Communities

Iverson_64

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Women.......
I'm sorry but, speaking as someone who's been helping out actual Black communities in various ways, this is blatantly false and not even close to reality from my experience.

Black women are very prominent in services designed to help Black men to the degree where they even begged me to find other Black men to put in time to help out due to relatability. I've met Black female educators and tutors that were beyond grateful at Black men who would take the time to mentor and teach Black students in the educational system.

A lot of non-profits and job hunting centers I used to work in were also full of Black women helping Black men find employment, rehabilitation, housing, food, shelter, etc. I've seen sisters help ex-convicts, recovering drug addicts, and homeless Black men get their lives on point.

Black women put in tons of work to help Black men in various organizations that I've been in. If your argument is that single moms conspired to "destroy" the community, it honestly goes both ways. It takes 2 to tangle and there's a number of Black kids who's fathers were knuckleheads who couldn't get their lives together. I mentored Black male students in math who straight up told me that their fathers were in jail...........not because of child support but because their dads were caught up in nonsense. Also, both groups should hold themselves accountable for having kids out of wedlock and not prioritizing marriage to begin with.

It's easy to point fingers at one gender. TRL will blame BW and LSA will blame BM. But the community as a whole needs to pull together and get new priorities and mentalities for true change to occur.
 

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Then you'd have dusty dudes crying about not having access to women, eventually end up going crazy and killing everything in sight.
Well that means BM have to neutralize them ourselves instead of waiting for 12 to come.. but even THAT’S a dangerous game because we’ve seen what happens when brehs try to protect and defend women from bums.
 

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And the problematic people (ranging from every socioeconomic class, age, and gender) benefit from dysfunction

folks still believe being black is enough to be apart of the black community.. and it is why we are in the position we are in

A discussion has to be had about that segment of black people who are gate keepers of the establishment, and getting money from the establishment, to keep black people in a complicated position.
 

HARLEM AL

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They don’t respect somebody that has obvious contempt for them. Your father wanted a son and ended up with you
My father was bytchass nikka like you. No, if you ever had any REAL interactions with women you'd know they respect nikkas who speak their mind. They might not even like you or fukk with you. But they have more respect for me than a pandering ass nikka like you. They know yall do anything for p*ssy or validation from p*ssy.
 

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I don't mind doing it, but the community gonna have to sign waivers for me to slide across them car hoods. That shyt look dope on the screen.

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The community, upon knighting me HNIC, will also have to watch Dr. Umar's lecture on psychologizing them on the corner. #ForGood

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I'm going to have to approve ALL music and movies before they are distributed for consumption (sorry Tubi and SoundCloud)

:ufdup:

I'm blocking TikTok and and limiting social media accounts to business and educational content.

:ufdup:

Any dropout teens and nonworking young adults will be on the community cleanup committee which also focuses on soft skills and critical thinking.

And for punishment, they have to join theColi and decipher Art Barr rants and discuss the potential reasonings behind Kenny West angry daps
 

HARLEM AL

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I'm sorry but, speaking as someone who's been helping out actual Black communities in various ways, this is blatantly false and not even close to reality from my experience.

Black women are very prominent in services designed to help Black men to the degree where they even begged me to find other Black men to put in time to help out due to relatability. I've met Black female educators and tutors that were beyond grateful at Black men who would take the time to mentor and teach Black students in the educational system.

A lot of non-profits and job hunting centers I used to work in were also full of Black women helping Black men find employment, rehabilitation, housing, food, shelter, etc. I've seen sisters help ex-convicts, recovering drug addicts, and homeless Black men get their lives on point.

Black women put in tons of work to help Black men in various organizations that I've been in. If your argument is that single moms conspired to "destroy" the community, it honestly goes both ways. It takes 2 to tangle and there's a number of Black kids who's fathers were knuckleheads who couldn't get their lives together. I mentored Black male students in math who straight up told me that their fathers were in jail...........not because of child support but because their dads were caught up in nonsense. Also, both groups should hold themselves accountable for having kids out of wedlock and not prioritizing marriage to begin with.

It's easy to point fingers at one gender. TRL will black BW and LSA will blame BM. But the community as a whole needs to pull together and get new priorities and mentalities for true change to occur.
Your experience dont trump facts and reality lil nikka....
 

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My father was bytchass nikka like you. No, if you ever had any REAL interactions with women you'd know they respect nikkas who speak their mind. They might not even like you or fukk with you. But they have more respect for me than a pandering ass nikka like you. They know yall do anything for p*ssy or validation from p*ssy.

Who am I pandering too you stupid b*stard. Point to the two or three bytches not in this thread that I’m trying to pander to like I ant got a woman of my own, short bus fakkit
 

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Well that means BM have to neutralize them ourselves instead of waiting for 12 to come.. but even THAT’S a dangerous game because we’ve seen what happens when brehs try to protect and defend women from bums.

Everything is really fcked up right now. I can understand people looking for a supernatural being to come save us, because if you look at everything that has to happen to make shyt right in a realistic way, shyt is damn near impossible.
 

HARLEM AL

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Who am I pandering too you stupid b*stard. Point to the two or three bytches not in this thread that I’m trying to pander to like I ant got a woman of my own, short bus fakkit
Yeah like I thought. A bytch ass nikka who just talk.
 

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Yes the only way to police the community is to stop impregnating women who DO NOT deserve the privilege of raising children and to LEAVE THE HOOD....
 

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And, I dare say, there are good women out there that is willing to let a MAN lead. And don’t respond back with no fukking IG whores or no TikTok bytches or none of that stupid shyt. You’re not gonna find them on there. Men big up those bytches that ain’t shyt or have no morals and self respect, and then you wanna point your fukking fingers and say women are the bad guys. Truth is, some of y’all don’t respect the good women that would let you lead and play their position anymore than those silly dilly bytches respect good, respectful men with leadership capabilities.
 
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