are you talking about casual relationships or serious?
if youre talking casual why wouldnt you want to make it worth her while?
At that point youre too old to be trying to run game, lie or waste time with shyt.
Get straight to the point and be completely honest with what you want.
Im too damn old to be sitting on the phone, texting all day, selling dreams, etc...
Even if youre looking for something serious...
besides liking who you are the reason a younger chick is going to want to be with you is because youre established and she wont have to worry about certain shyt.
The problem with a lot of men is yall want the benefits of being a man without the responsibilities