At what age did you have your glow up?

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How old were you when you were settled in your career and pretty much independent & handling your business(housing/bills/car) whilst having the ability to spend $ on things you enjoy?

:why: I just want to be a independent Black Woman who doesn't need a man but I feel like this is going to take forever.
 

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Everybody needs somebody, whether we like to admit it or not and nothing is wrong with that :yeshrug:

Also it's not really a set age as long as your moving forward and progressing, that's all that really counts.

I'm in a glow up right now at 23. A lot things have been coming fast for me the last 3 months but i'm still not where I want to be but ill get there soon. I got a car, good job making decent pay, finishing college in a year, my savings starting to look cold af and i'm working out. But for me i'll probably won't feel "fulfilled" until I sort out some emotional needs but that'll come when the time is right I guess.
 

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:why: I just want to be a independent Black Woman who doesn't need a man but I feel like this is going to take forever.
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How old were you when you were settled in your career and pretty much independent & handling your business(housing/bills/car) whilst having the ability to spend $ on things you enjoy?

:why: I just want to be a independent Black Woman who doesn't need a man but I feel like this is going to take forever.
what job you have?
is that really you in your avi:ohhh:
 

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How old were you when you were settled in your career and pretty much independent & handling your business(housing/bills/car) whilst having the ability to spend $ on things you enjoy?

:why: I just want to be a independent Black Woman who doesn't need a man but I feel like this is going to take forever.

This where you fukked up beloved, nikkas gone tear you apart :sas2:

Should've stayed on the humble:mjlol:
 

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Everybody needs somebody, whether we like to admit it or not and nothing is wrong with that :yeshrug:

Also it's not really a set age as long as your moving forward and progressing, that's all that really counts.

I'm in a glow up right now at 23. A lot things have been coming fast for me the last 3 months but i'm still not where I want to be but ill get there soon. But for me i'll probably won't feel "fulfilled" until I sort out some emotional needs but that'll come when the time is right I guess.

I'm 24 and I want things to come fast like that for me.My cousin recently called and wants to go to Miami during our birthday month (in Feb) but I have other responsibilities to take care of before I plan a trip in Miami. :why: This f*cking sucks.How am I supposed to enjoy my 20's?
 

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How old were you when you were settled in your career and pretty much independent & handling your business(housing/bills/car) whilst having the ability to spend $ on things you enjoy?

:why: I just want to be a independent Black Woman who doesn't need a man but I feel like this is going to take forever.
You still wenching?
 

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I'm 24 and I want things to come fast like that for me.My cousin recently called and wants to go to Miami during our birthday month (in Feb) but I have other responsibilities to take care of before I plan a trip in Miami. :why: This f*cking sucks.How am I supposed to enjoy my 20's?

Your twenties aren't meant for you to enjoy...

With the creation of the education bubble and the lack of income rising and the increasing qualifications for jobs that pay a living wage...we have an extended childhood...and this awkward phase where we are delaying income and life satisfaction...but working like dogs...in our 20s....
 
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