At What Age Did Your Heart Turn Cold?

[Ashley Banks]

Who broke your heart boo?

 

[JasonSJackson]

Who broke your heart boo?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I meant that figuratively...climbing the corporate ladder and whatnot.

but of course for some people trying to make it on the streets its very literal

I know what you meant man. Lol

 

[BlvdBrawler]

the day my fiancee cheated on me while i was back in USA and got the verizon phone bill that said 3000 same day cuz of how much we talked on the phone due to it being long distance the same day she gave me a ultimatium saying either forgive me or never talk too me again

heart went cold like an ICEBOX

my age was 20

I'd like to hear more about this. How'd you find out she cheated? And at a $3000 phone bill.

 

[FreddyCalhoun]

The first time I did a group assignment and I was the only Black guy...Cacs are the Grimiest of the Grime...

That being said, I'm not all the way cold yet...but that changed me..

 

[Ashley Banks]

Your cyber bullying is gonna give me emotional scars that only years of therapy can heal.

 

[The Guru]

Really young. Def before twelve. Later on when my world got a little bigger things settled down some though.

 

[flea]

In middle school all the kids my age would get beat the fukk up by a group of older kids all the time. shyt was but the day my heart went cold was when i was in math and these two older kids stole shyt out my bookbag. i didnt even realize it til i got home and all my shyt was gone except my school books. they took a bunch of my cd's and paper (paper was kinda like gold back then; no one ever bought). I walk to the kitchen to inform my mother of my loss, she just shook her head. i walk back to my room, look in the mirror, and this face looked back at me

i had my next door neighbor Medina smack them both up a month later. I had to deal with them daily so i aint want to make it seem obvious that i got somebody to fight my battle and then in turn have them both fukking me up everyday.

 

[JasonSJackson]

Your cyber bullying is gonna give me emotional scars that only years of therapy can heal.

 

[jaylav_]

When my girlfriend broke up with me and went out with someone. I put a dent in his face the following day. I really gives no fvcks now. fukk everybody and there dreams and I was 14

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[twan83]

I'd like to hear more about this. How'd you find out she cheated? And at a $3000 phone bill.

When i was stationed in japan i was just bout that aint nothing better than new p*ssy life. sure i dated some chics at times but a serious relationship i only had like 3.

anyways she was my first love on some fukking movie type the min i saw her it was over for me. it was like cupid hit me with a NUKE no matter how hard i tried to fight it i couldnt help it

before i left we got engaged and planned on getting married the summer i would go see her and bring her back with a fiancee visa worse case scenario if i had problems getting married on post.

while i was in the states we would email but i wouldnt get much responses so i ended up calling more often than none. we would talk. the thing was i told her hey i trust you and love but dont be stupid and do something i will know for the simple fact EVERYBODY KNEW ME IN TOKYO i had a lot of female friends for starters and also cuz of that YAKUZA INCIDENT

well 2 months in i got a phone call and a email saying she did wrong by a female friend and i talked to her bout it and she confessed more than she should of cuz the female friend said she saw her exchange numbers and all i said was u shouldnt be doing that period and she told me she slept with him


so i was all heartbroken crying on the phone cuz it truly hurt my heart and soul cuz i really loved that girl and as we were talking i picked up my bill and that shyt said $3000 and that made me on top of sad.

as we were talking all she can say was sorry it wont happen again but i was like fukk THAT WE DONE TIP i told her look i will forgive in due time but for now i wanna call of the engagement we will stay together as bf and gf and then she fukked up and said this

IF I CANT STAY AS YOUR FIANCEE THEN I DONT WANNA EVEN BE YOUR FRIEND after she said i heard the cracks fall apart fell the my heart scarred and i just said fine u will never hear from me again and hung up.

ever since then i never was the same i became more of an a$$hole and cold hearted more guarded

u can call how i fell in love with her blind love or whatever but i kid u not she had a brother wrapped around her finger and wasnt cuz of the sex cuz that was just ok. it was on some shyt that i have never felt before and even i hated it cuz in alot of ways i knew she wasn't no good for me due to other shyt that had happen but i couldnt walk away till that cheating happened

 

[Reggie]

I don't really have a cold or black heart. But it was around my early to mid 20's that i started to realize that no one in the world is gonna look out for you but you. And the world didnt owe me or anyone else shyt in it.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

When I was nice all the time ppl use to treat and talk to me any kind of way until I was ready to fight then they would stfu..That shyt always use to make me feel bad cus I was always good and was willing to help ppl out whenever I can. I kinda felt use.

Girls use to diss me when I was younger. I wasnt always the best dress or best looking dude but I had a good heart so I thought that would matter but u think them bytches gave a fukk?? Nope lol. But the older I got the more females started to become attracted to me for some reason so I'm not bitter but I'd never forget how they use to treat me tho. It turned my heart cold

 

[1980sCokeFlow]

At the young age of 18... I was diggin on her hard and she was married. Her family knew and didn't even bother to tell me. Since then, I have been hard on these h0es mane...

 

[Ohene]

i voted age 20. Although the break up was 19...it was around age 20 that I recovered and was straight mode