At your age. How much does looks still matter to u When it comes to opposite sex

[Voice of Reason]

Nah looks matter



I have to want to have sex with her continually over a long period of time for it to work.

 

[Youseenmywork]

It’s hard to lower cause I think it effects a mans Libido I go no lower than an Adjustable 7

 

[BrehWyatt]

It matters to me, but not as much as the connection from a mental/emotional/personality standpoint.

Looks fade and are hella subjective. For some, the fading process is slower than others. A 6 to some is a strong 7-8 to others. Some people think looks and think about Team #FaceTime, others hear looks and think "The ass/breasts are succulent "

Think about how many folks sidestep a cute-faced BBW (or privately claim, at best) only to turn around and call her a dime because she dropped 40-50 pounds?

Or how many find themselves a dime only to be like toward her after a weight gain? Not even because she gained 40-50 pounds in the first place, but because that weight gain went to the 'wrong' place(s)?

That said, looks matter to a degree. If a 6-7 type chick that I find attractive checks off all my non-aesthetic boxes? Fukk it, we in there. Granted, I can only speak for me, someone who is by no means a member of #ObjectivelyHandsomeGang (meaning, consensus opinion on your looks is 7.5 or above). Most of the people I've gone on dates with or looked at in that fashion, I did so because I liked their personality or whatever, but I just so happened to consider them "cute enough."

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I'm not ready to date black girls yet

Fred

 

[Hejdå]

Doesn't matter much. I'm #teamugly so my options been limited

 

[Ziggiy]

Of course it's important but intelligence and compatibility are MORE important as you grow older and the possibilities of marriage and children become more of an inevitability.

I have a type anyway. Dark skinned, natural hair, big booty. If you meet those three physical requirements i can work with an 7-8 (physically) with a 9-10 personality and compatibility factor.

 

[TEH]

30-40%.

Personality >>>>>>>>>> looks.​

Exactly

I appreciate beauty but for it to be more than just smashing the personality has to be a 10

 

[Da King]

At 60+, only money counts

 

[Micky Mikey]

75%. I simply cannot have the same level of sexual arousal with a 6 or 7. It will just lead to her complaining that we dont have sex enough and that i dont show enough affection.

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

I don't settle for shyt. As member of handsome bearded wave gang with options, the woman gotta be 8+ for me to get into a serious relationship with her

She has to be presentable. And I'm more about a pretty face more than a body.

I'd use ugly chicks for the head but im not even doing that anymore.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

40 years old and that shyt matters.

Ironically, I'm probably going to settle down with the least... "conventionally attractive" woman I've ever dated.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Of course it's important but intelligence and compatibility are MORE important as you grow older and the possibilities of marriage and children become more of an inevitability.

I have a type anyway. Dark skinned, natural hair, big booty. If you meet those three physical requirements i can work with an 7-8 (physically) with a 9-10 personality and compatibility factor.

I agree with the essence of this post, but a 7-8 physically - because this is clearly above average - with a 9-10 personality/compatibility is a fundamental dime, IMO.

I'd agree more if you had said 5.5, 6 physically, but I am not the one to question or criticize what a man's standards are for his dealings with the opposite sex.

 

[Knowledge]

She has to be presentable. And I'm more about a pretty face more than a body.

I'd use ugly chicks for the head but im not even doing that anymore.

Yeah I use to entertain mud ducks n older women cause they spoiled me with stuff but I'm off that now

 

[RTF]

It’s important but it’s not everything.

I’m 28. Great salary on a way to a excellent one. Own property. Masters from a top university. Muscular. Hairline crispy. I’m like a 7 maybe 8 out of 10 in looks.


All this to say. Atraction is just one element. Fundamental but still just one element.

I’m finding it hard finding wifey. Met a lot of beautiful girls but I’m connecting with few (beyond sex).

The 3 baddest women I’ve dated I’ve let go because we didn’t connect on a deeper level.

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

I'm more about the personality....but you gotta be something to look at...


I've concluded solid 7s (average face/bad body) usually tend to be the best females/or have the most wifey potential...

I.E.......

If the chick looks too good...too much hands-on is usually required....

and if she's a 5 or below...Well thats basically automatic "slide" territory....