Attempting to rekindle with your ex is the best thing you can do for her ego

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This is why I've always been against tryna play nice with your ex and definitely against trying to get bacc with them unless you know for a fact she's still willing to fucc with you

If the relationship ended at the expense or her feelings, all she wants is one last time to curve you, she can't do that if yall never talc.

That's why after some time passes an ex will hit you up, and keep on doing it periodically. Eventually you say fucc it and get too comfortable with her again. You may profess you still have love for her or thst you wanna see her again. This is what she's been waiting on, that's all she needs now she can finally turn you down or try to shyt on you/play you to turn the tables.

The best thing you can do as a male is just ignore all exes even the ones thst reach out first don't matter.
 

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Every single one of my exes has come back around.

My ex from 1996 hit me up last year saying she was bored in her marriage. :laugh:
A white chick I used to fukk back in 2010 popped up during the panedmic too. :laugh:

Those are just the longest term ones.
 

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I once fukked up and followed an ex on IG when I was drunk :russ: only for the day though, bytch watched my stories and didn’t follow back :mjlol:

It was my fault for being a dumb ass. :francis: nikkas will say this all day, but good p*ssy will have you missing it :takedat::sadcam: especially if another woman even better doesn’t come around after.

Yes exes are a lesson but some times you don’t always immediately get to meet “someone better for you” so you slip down memory lane :manny:
 

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The worst part about missing an ex is how sometimes you wish that you could hit them to tell them about how you have accomplished certain dreams and aspirations for yourself that you were striving for during the relationship :mjcry:

They were one of your biggest supporters, but it never worked out until after they were gone :mjcry:

Talk to my current chick about it, but it's not the same :mjcry:
 

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The worst part about missing an ex is how sometimes you wish that you could hit them to tell them about how you have accomplished certain dreams and aspirations for yourself that you were striving for during the relationship :mjcry:

They were one of your biggest supporters, but it never worked out until after they were gone :mjcry:

Talk to my current chick about it, but it's not the same :mjcry:

The shorter the relationship, the less likely you are to have those types of memories.

Kevin Samuels is right that we shouldn’t be having these 4-10 year relationships without marriage.

That’s a lot of time and memories with a person to just throw away.

Make it work with the person or throw in the towel much earlier.
 

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The shorter the relationship, the less likely you are to have those types of memories.

Kevin Samuels is right that we shouldn’t be having these 4-10 year relationships without marriage.

That’s a lot of time and memories with a person to just throw away.

Make it work with the person or throw in the towel much earlier.

That can happen regardless of whether you marry that person or not.

Marriage won't stop time and memories from eventually being thrown away if it doesn't work out. I would have to listen to the full context of the conversation before I agree with whether he is correct in his assertion or not.
 

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i just re-read and did some more prescient thought to this.
where i can condense almost thirty years of internet dating and social life guidance in a rant.
where you mind dead imbeciles.
can sit at the table and not be lost because the general you out there.
is quite plainely and simply, stoopid.

to add on.
an ex, is also an admittal in a cross roads in life.
where you have to become sexually secure and stop having and faking a relationship for a nut.
where all that disney princess meets mademoiselle matriarch eic cs vampire gateway bs.
you subscribed to is a lie.


learn the difference between a mate, lover, and the difference of non-committal and committal types.

a mate is a non-committal.
which is typically what an ex is.
where long term abuse through long term flakely fake a relationship for a nut idealogy has become a permanent calcified callous on your ability to find a real committal to have a real long term successful relationship with.
most ex's are serial relationship stalkers and typically never are without someone in an attempt to take in a long con.
fukk this bytch, and literally that should be all it is.
do not do long term relationship committal based events or activities with this non actualized immature female. who does not have her virtue and is a non-committal in committal based and shaped wool adorned outfits and gear. this is not a woman. this is a non-committal based female.
the only way you can find a committal as a remack.
is said female is very direct in being physical and that is all it is.
as she is secure sexually and it is nothing wrong or hoe-ish.
about a human being subscribing to their natural need for dopamine.
through a virtue real based interaction, not endorsed or centered around monetary gain/loss or soft john trickery.
the atypical female in a remack situation is atypically never a real committal and a non-committal. allowed to operate as a fake non-committal in this eic vampire succubbus based society. where the long con is an investment to send the child reared for eic. straight to the prison industrial economy to be process for the cost of eic, for the eighteen years of that child's life.
as she is around to be an eic cs succubbus.
looking to ensnare a patsy and soft john boi.
to reap the monetary benefits of faking a relationship for a nut.
this female is always sexually insecure and is to be avoided past serving a non-committal adult consentual sexual need.
this female is a non-committal style mate.
preying on a past committal based environment.
disguised as a committal.
where the endgoal is.
an ultimate fail to getting moved on after and before the alter.
it is a conjob.
that results in systemic poverty because children yielded from this in divorce or single parenthood.
become the dynamic end result of what the factual equation to poverty is.
which is single parenthood.
brought on children out of wedlock.
as you are systemically poor.
as a indisputable fact.
as poverty is created by having and rearing any child out of wedlock.


if you bring a child in this world with a female mate.
who is never committed to creating a social tranquil environment to nurture a seed.
you may be rich in resources.
yet you will be drained of monetary and mental social and physical resources to levels of poverty.
as a fact, and you can not dispute a fact.



art barr


accept accountability

art barr

*is a poverty maker
 
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funny how feelings and life change..if you told me this one year from today i would told ya fukk that i miss her dearly:francis:.....now i hope to God she dont call me:ehh::ehh: ive come so close to my dreams/goals in life i feel she will distract my path:beli:

What would you do if she called you?
 
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