Attempting to rekindle with your ex is the best thing you can do for her ego

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True. One thing I notice though is alot of recently single women will change up their whole look and start getting their body right AFTER a relationship. Then would hit their ex up in an effort to thirst trap him. (My ex was doing this to a degree). shyt is retarded because why you ain't just work out when we was together :heh:

The thing is they start making the minor changes ahead of the breakup. They are about to put themselves back out on the market or already have your replacement lined up and she's trying to hook him.

If your woman suddenly starts working out or getting serious about fitness out of nowhere, you can bet on it that the conversation is coming!

Then, they'll get with the next nikka, get comfortable and get flabby, again.
 

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Its usually they want to see if you are broken and to see what they thought about you were true. They try to spin back when they realize shyt didnt work out like they thought. all you have to is continue to grow mentally and stay healthy. They will see that that they fukked up big time. Never take them back. You will be having to deal with new baggage from her dealing with other dudes and she wont respect you for taking her back. shyt she will respect you even more for rejecting her because she knows if the shoe was on the other foot she wouldnt give you the time nor the day.

And trust they are always keeping track of the solid dude who got away.
 

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But fukk a ex :yeshrug:
Yall broke up for a reason
Your next chick will be your best chick
 

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As I always say why give someone a second chance when there is a woman out there praying for a first with a breh like you.

Facts. If you are a solid breh, there are literally women praying for a man like you.

I know so many single Black women. It's easy to see why a lot of men don't want to settle down. It's a literal buffet if you're out there on the hunt.
 

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Its usually they want to see if you are broken and to see what they thought about you were true. They try to spin back when they realize shyt didnt work out like they thought. all you have to is continue to grow mentally and stay healthy. They will see that that they fukked up big time. Never take them back. You will be having to deal with new baggage from her dealing with other dudes and she wont respect you for taking her back. shyt she will respect you even more for rejecting her because she knows if the shoe was on the other foot she wouldnt give you the time nor the day.

And trust they are always keeping track of the solid dude who got away.
Maybe I’m a negative thinker but I truly believe my ex won’t call me:yeshrug::yeshrug: I’ve torn out any thought this past year that she will contact:yeshrug::yeshrug::yeshrug: I’ve accepted it:ehh:
God is a funny muthafukka so watch him pull some strings:scust::scust::scust:
 

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Maybe I’m a negative thinker but I truly believe my ex won’t call me:yeshrug::yeshrug: I’ve torn out any thought this past year that she will contact:yeshrug::yeshrug::yeshrug: I’ve accepted it:ehh:
God is a funny muthafukka so watch him pull some strings:scust::scust::scust:
She will. But she not because you havent let her go. Soon as you have moved on and have no care in the world about her she will contact you.
 

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If you were living below your potential its a different story than u doing what u can and losing your girl.

Still might be best to never show how u feel and accept the L if she felt personally wronged tho.


True. One thing I notice though is alot of recently single women will change up their whole look and start getting their body right AFTER a relationship. Then would hit their ex up in an effort to thirst trap him. (My ex was doing this to a degree). shyt is retarded because why you ain't just work out when we was together :heh:

Its depending on the role she played in the relationship. If she was a caretaker who put her needs after yours then its a stunt not a thirst trap.
 

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She will. But she not because you havent let her go. Soon as you have moved on and have no care in the world about her she will contact you.

Facts. Their timing is usually eerie when it comes to that!

But, it’s usually because they are spying on you in various ways. Women are good at that.

I’m almost certain my ex was calling me from burner numbers for a period of time. Both my personal and work phone. I’d answer, hear nothing for about 5-10 seconds and then the person would hang up.

I think she just wanted to hear my voice. There was comfort in that familiarity. She always liked how I sounded when I answered the phone.
 

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Facts. Their timing is usually eerie when it comes to that!

But, it’s usually because they are spying on you in various ways. Women are good at that.

I’m almost certain my ex was calling me from burner numbers for a period of time. Both my personal and work phone. I’d answer, hear nothing for about 5-10 seconds and then the person would hang up.

I think she just wanted to hear my voice. There was comfort in that familiarity. She always liked how I sounded when I answered the phone.
I know you didnt mean it in this way but this is why they try to come back too.
 

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All my exes have hit me up in the last 12 months for some weird reason. bytches I haven't fukked in 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 years just texting me out the blue like they care about me and wanna see me. Following me again on social media, liking all my shyt for attention and I still don't bite. It's like they can smell a nikka leveling up without them.
 

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My ex tried to get back with me, talm bout let's go out for drinks :wub:

Hit her back with sorry, I got a new girl now
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I purposely send a message and pretend... let them try to curve, just to let them have that :yeshrug:
Maybe I'll no longer be the bad guy for moving on, now that she gotta a lil bit of pride back.


It doesn't hurt me and I know the reality is I got s better woman and still have better
 
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