Attraction is 100% Looks

[Grams]

whats the story breh

no way it was that bad

Jawn #1 - This one girl I'm semi friends with knew I was tryna bag and she just let me know upfront it wasn't gonna happen

Jawn #2 - I thought she was giving me looks so I go up to her to try and bag and she literally pretends like I'm not even there. Maybe it's cuz im blick so she didn't see me

Jawn #3 - Moved to another part of the bus just to avoid me

 

[TheDarceKnight]

I got rejected three times in a row earlier today

It's okay man. Try to not care about the outcome. Does Lebron James care if he misses a few shots? Nope. Because he shoots lots of jumpers.

Unless you live in the sticks, there should be plenty of women to talk to. Fear of rejection is real, and it's serious. But if you can get past it, you will feel amazing. Try not to attach too many feelings towards either outcome. Just have fun. When you talk to a girl, just think of it like you're talking to them because you want to, and you're just going about your day, having fun, and you're bringing them into that fun. It might not even be personal if they reject you. They might have a boyfriend, they might be busy, you just might not be their type...none of that is bad. There's so many fish in the sea.

I'm newly single after over 3 years out of the game, and I'm 2 for 9 in the past 2 weeks. There are a couple of the 7 I missed that I wish I could've been with, but that's the way it is. And of those 7 I crashed and burned really bad on 2 of them. Oh well. A lot of people would consider that a low amount of women to approach too. If you wanted to you could literally open a conversation with every woman you see. That would really get you over fear of rejection (if you have it.)

There are so many resources too. Are you just approaching girls on the street? Clubs? Online? shyt man, there are some great women that want to fukk and/or be in a relationship (I don't know if you're a 'ship guy or if you just want to fukk around) but Tinder and OK Cupid are both great. If anyone tells you online shyt is lame, fukk 'em. It's just another resource. It's 2014. If you can get ass from an app, do it.

It's just like shooting jumpers man. Find out what kind of guy you are and what you want from women (casual flings, short term 'ships, long term 'ships, etc.) and then you'll also feel more confident because you'll be more sure of yourself.

 

[TheDarceKnight]

Shut your ass up. I've seen attractive and insecure dudes walk into clubs and get chose by fine women.

One of my best friends is a CAC that wouldn't look outta place on some A&F promotion and I've seen this dude walk into a coffee shop and get numbers written on his coffee cup by saying hey to the Barista. I had to convince this nikka to call her because he wasn't too sure at how to ask her out.

That used to happen to me, and I'd react the same way. If only I knew back then...I will agree on this. If a chick does think you're attractive, you just need to shut the fukk up and not talk your way out of a good thing.

Back when I was a freshman in college I remember this girl came over "to watch a movie" and right away, I started talking about the relationship I had just gotten out of, and how I wasn't looking for anything serious but that "I also was open to a relationship"....



If I had just shut the fukk up I would've had that big juicy ass all in my face, but I had to ruin it.

fukk I was stupid. When I was young I talked my way out of sex a good 4-5 times without even realizing it.

 

[Grams]

It's okay man. Try to not care about the outcome. Does Lebron James care if he misses a few shots? Nope. Because he shoots lots of jumpers.

Unless you live in the sticks, there should be plenty of women to talk to. Fear of rejection is real, and it's serious. But if you can get past it, you will feel amazing. Try not to attach too many feelings towards either outcome. Just have fun. When you talk to a girl, just think of it like you're talking to them because you want to, and you're just going about your day, having fun, and you're bringing them into that fun. It might not even be personal if they reject you. They might have a boyfriend, they might be busy, you just might not be their type...none of that is bad. There's so many fish in the sea.

I'm newly single after over 3 years out of the game, and I'm 2 for 9 in the past 2 weeks. There are a couple of the 7 I missed that I wish I could've been with, but that's the way it is. And of those 7 I crashed and burned really bad on 2 of them. Oh well. A lot of people would consider that a low amount of women to approach too. If you wanted to you could literally open a conversation with every woman you see. That would really get you over fear of rejection (if you have it.)

There are so many resources too. Are you just approaching girls on the street? Clubs? Online? shyt man, there are some great women that want to fukk and/or be in a relationship (I don't know if you're a 'ship guy or if you just want to fukk around) but Tinder and OK Cupid are both great. If anyone tells you online shyt is lame, fukk 'em. It's just another resource. It's 2014. If you can get ass from an app, do it.

It's just like shooting jumpers man. Find out what kind of guy you are and what you want from women (casual flings, short term 'ships, long term 'ships, etc.) and then you'll also feel more confident because you'll be more sure of yourself.

1. LeBron doesn't care if he misses a jumper cuz he's nice. If Thabo Seflosha misses a jumper he won't shoot again for the rest of the game
2. I'm never a girl's type
3. I don't approach girls in the street cuz they don't wanna be bothered buy some bum nikka in the middle of their day
4. Online and Tinder isn't the wave cuz I don't want people I know finding me
5. Clubs are too dark and I be looking like a floating shirt
6. I wouldn't mind a relationship

 

[hood b. goode]

1. LeBron doesn't care if he misses a jumper cuz he's nice. If Thabo Seflosha misses a jumper he won't shoot again for the rest of the game
2. I'm never a girl's type
3. I don't approach girls in the street cuz they don't wanna be bothered buy some bum nikka in the middle of their day
4. Online and Tinder isn't the wave cuz I don't want people I know finding me
5. Clubs are too dark and I be looking like a floating shirt
6. I wouldn't mind a relationship

This is some bullsht. If you aren't going to get your testosterone up and start making an effort, you might as well give up now.

p*ssy boys dont get to have the finer things in life. thats for people who make moves and figure out a way to succed.

 

[TheDarceKnight]

1. LeBron doesn't care if he misses a jumper cuz he's nice. If Thabo Seflosha misses a jumper he won't shoot again for the rest of the game
2. I'm never a girl's type
3. I don't approach girls in the street cuz they don't wanna be bothered buy some bum nikka in the middle of their day
4. Online and Tinder isn't the wave cuz I don't want people I know finding me
5. Clubs are too dark and I be looking like a floating shirt
6. I wouldn't mind a relationship

fukk...I laughed but man, I hate that you feel so bad about yourself.

There's gotta be something that you've got going for you. Do you have any female friends that can be like wing-girls for you? Or set you up? If you think you're ugly, fukk it man, play that angle. If you have any friends that are females, have them sell you to girls they know as a "fixer-upper". Women like meeting guys that they can take under their wing and "fix." I'm sure you can find a decent woman that would love to be in a relationship with you.

That's why I mentioned the online dating joint. Maybe skip Tinder, because it's more looks based, and more of a hook-up thing, less actual dating...but with the online thing you can get to know someone first, and then the looks thing isn't that serious, because they already know your personality.

Don't approach in the middle of the street. If that's not your steez, don't do it. It's not mine, and I don't do it. I was just trying to gauge how much of a p*ssy fiend you are. Do you have any hobbies? Maybe you could try meeting some women over mutual interests? Again, that helps set the stage for your personality before you even talk.

Don't say you're never a girl's type man. Maybe not often, but there's people out there for everyone. It's okay to think you aren't the best looking dude, but don't hate on yourself. That shyt won't get you anywhere. If you can find something about yourself to feel good about, it will show through. From what I've seen, you don't talk about yourself in the best terms, so maybe as corny as it sounds...women are feeling like you don't care about yourself, so why should they?

Just a thought...I dunno man. Just trying to help out.

 

[TheDarceKnight]

This is some bullsht. If you aren't going to get your testosterone up and start making an effort, you might as well give up now.

p*ssy boys dont get to have the finer things in life. thats for people who make moves and figure out a way to succed.

This is true to a degree. fukk it @Grams start doing martial arts. Brazilian Jiu Jitsu helped my confidence big time. Getting fukked up regularly, and fukking people up regularly---I feel like it boosted my testosterone, helped keep my ego in check, and makes me feel like an actual man. If not that, try to find some type of hobby or thing that you can get good at.

@Grams just needs a win. Even if it's not a huge win. Something positive hopefully is going to help your confidence out man.

 

[hood b. goode]

This is true to a degree. fukk it @Grams start doing martial arts. Brazilian Jiu Jitsu helped my confidence big time. Getting fukked up regularly, and fukking people up regularly---I feel like it boosted my testosterone, helped keep my ego in check, and makes me feel like an actual man. If not that, try to find some type of hobby or thing that you can get good at.

@Grams just needs a win. Even if it's not a huge win. Something positive hopefully is going to help your confidence out man.

 

[Grams]

This is some bullsht. If you aren't going to get your testosterone up and start making an effort, you might as well give up now.

p*ssy boys dont get to have the finer things in life. thats for people who make moves and figure out a way to succed.

I make efforts and get rejected, have you not been paying attention

fukk...I laughed but man, I hate that you feel so bad about yourself.

There's gotta be something that you've got going for you. Do you have any female friends that can be like wing-girls for you? Or set you up? If you think you're ugly, fukk it man, play that angle. If you have any friends that are females, have them sell you to girls they know as a "fixer-upper". Women like meeting guys that they can take under their wing and "fix." I'm sure you can find a decent woman that would love to be in a relationship with you.

That's why I mentioned the online dating joint. Maybe skip Tinder, because it's more looks based, and more of a hook-up thing, less actual dating...but with the online thing you can get to know someone first, and then the looks thing isn't that serious, because they already know your personality.

Don't approach in the middle of the street. If that's not your steez, don't do it. It's not mine, and I don't do it. I was just trying to gauge how much of a p*ssy fiend you are. Do you have any hobbies? Maybe you could try meeting some women over mutual interests? Again, that helps set the stage for your personality before you even talk.

Don't say you're never a girl's type man. Maybe not often, but there's people out there for everyone. It's okay to think you aren't the best looking dude, but don't hate on yourself. That shyt won't get you anywhere. If you can find something about yourself to feel good about, it will show through. From what I've seen, you don't talk about yourself in the best terms, so maybe as corny as it sounds...women are feeling like you don't care about yourself, so why should they?

Just a thought...I dunno man. Just trying to help out.

1. I can't be friends with girls...I'm gonna have to smash or its nothing
2. My only hobby is watching soccer by myself because the typical American doesn't know about soccer and the questions/ignorant statements drive me insane no offense to my fellow Amerks
3. I'm not hating on myself I'm realistic

This is true to a degree. fukk it @Grams start doing martial arts. Brazilian Jiu Jitsu helped my confidence big time. Getting fukked up regularly, and fukking people up regularly---I feel like it boosted my testosterone, helped keep my ego in check, and makes me feel like an actual man. If not that, try to find some type of hobby or thing that you can get good at.

@Grams just needs a win. Even if it's not a huge win. Something positive hopefully is going to help your confidence out man.

I don't have money for BJJ or boxing gym memberships

 

[TheDarceKnight]

That's a good idea.

And honestly, I think some type of group workout would be good. Like crossfit if you wanna go the weights route. Anything to get in social situations, tribe mentality, and get feedback from other people. Humans are tribal creatures, and we do well in groups. Solo lifting may help the confidence, but I've become a big believer that group activities can be really helpful for people that already don't seem to have a ton of confidence.

 

[hood b. goode]

I make efforts and get rejected, have you not been paying attention

1. I can't be friends with girls...I'm gonna have to smash or its nothing
2. My only hobby is watching soccer by myself because the typical American doesn't know about soccer and the questions/ignorant statements drive me insane no offense to my fellow Amerks
3. I'm not hating on myself I'm realistic

I don't have money for BJJ or boxing gym memberships

Oh i did.

All rejection means is you're doing something right.

Problem with you is, your child-like mindset makes you view failure as a bad thing. You don't improve any skill on the planet without failing repeatedly at it.

I got rejected by somewhere around 200-300 girls before i got one night stands at the club / bar

Quit or stick it out

 

[TheDarceKnight]

1. I can't be friends with girls...I'm gonna have to smash or its nothing
2. My only hobby is watching soccer by myself because the typical American doesn't know about soccer and the questions/ignorant statements drive me insane no offense to my fellow Amerks
3. I'm not hating on myself I'm realistic

I don't have money for BJJ or boxing gym memberships

1. You are really missing out. All bullshyt and fronting aside, YES, men would fukk all of their female friends if they could. BUT, that doesn't mean that there aren't some amazing women that are worth becoming friends with. Even if you go after them and get put in the friend zone, I've had many a platonic friend help me get ass. Girl friends are underrated.

2. Okay, but you're limiting yourself. Even then, why don't you go to places that show soccer games and see if there are any women watching? I'm sure there are some die hard soccer fans out there that you could smash. Find you a little soccer girl and ya'll can fukk and watch soccer all day long. They're out there.

3. Yes you are. You may think it's only being realistic, but trust me man. My confidence used to suck. You're hating on yourself. Maybe not badly, but at least a little bit.

 

[TheDarceKnight]

Oh i did.

All rejection means is you're doing something right.

Problem with you is, your child-like mindset makes you view failure as a bad thing. You don't improve any skill on the planet without failing repeatedly at it.

I got rejected by somewhere around 200-300 girls before i got one night stands at the club / bar

Quit or stick it out

And to quit means to give up on life. Sex is awesome and it's unhealthy to not have a regular sex life. You're gonna respond and say "no shyt" but I'm just saying that if you stick it out like Hood says, and find some success, your life will feel so much better.

 

[Grams]

Oh i did.

All rejection means is you're doing something right.

Problem with you is, your child-like mindset makes you view failure as a bad thing. You don't improve any skill on the planet without failing repeatedly at it.

I got rejected by somewhere around 200-300 girls before i got one night stands at the club / bar

Quit or stick it out

And to quit means to give up on life. Sex is awesome and it's unhealthy to not have a regular sex life. You're gonna respond and say "no shyt" but I'm just saying that if you stick it out like Hood says, and find some success, your life will feel so much better.

Thanks for the advice but you man don't look like 1:37 AM

 

[hood b. goode]

Thanks for the advice but you man don't look like 1:37 AM

how do you know what i look like?

Post a pic of yourself if you claim to be so un attractive.