Attractive men...do y'all still approach women???

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PhonZhi said:
Men wanting females to approach is some unnatural bytchmade shyt. Real talk.

As A Man, If You Think That Females Should Approach.....Kill Yaself
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When you grew up in an area where all you saw was thirsty brehs trying to bag EVERY woman they saw with no regard on some lame shyt...

You sometimes get turned off by that method.

I'm not saying it's lame but, for me, approaching was like sunglasses...

It worked for others but I always felt I would be trying to hard to look cool by doing it. So, it never became part of my methods.

Now, at events, in school, engagements? It's a whole different world when you approach with a unifying lead in - e.i interests are already established because of the event "Hey, I saw your face turn up, I'm guessing we both disagreed with the speaker on mass incarceration, right? *Laughs - and things like that distinguish themselves from approaching a random woman with a fat ass on the street who clearly believes you approached every other woman the same way.
 
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Woman of God said:
U should tag specific ppl because a bunch of posters who don't fit the criteria are gonna answer :francis:
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It's difficult for men to have the comfort needed from tag other men that mat fit the criteria of attractive.

Sucks but this is the way of the world.
 
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DPresidential said:
When you grew up in an area where all you saw was thirsty brehs trying to bag EVERY woman they saw with no regard on some lame shyt...

You sometimes get turned off by that method.

I'm not saying it's lame but, for me, approaching was like sunglasses...

It worked for others but I always felt I would be trying to hard to look cool by doing it. So, it never became part of my methods.

Now, at events, in school, engagements? It's a whole different world when you approach with a unifying lead in - e.i interests are already established because of the event "Hey, I saw your face turn up, I'm guessing we both disagreed with the speaker on mass incarceration, right? *Laughs - and things like that distinguish themselves from approaching a random woman with a fat ass on the street who clearly believes you approached every other woman the same way.
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Yea I get what you saying but I guess I'm referring to the mindset alot of dudes have.

Dudes really be like "bu bu but why can't women ever approach men" :sadcam:

I don't think no man should ever EXPECT women to do the approaching or making the first move. That's not their role.

Even if you and a female chop it up frequently (work, school, etc) and you both are feeling each other, its ultimately up to YOU the man to make that first move. Most women aren't going to do it simply because their brains aren't programmed to pursue. Thsts the man's role. If that man doesn't open his mouth she's gonna assume he isn't interested and the next man who DOES open his mouth will reap the benefits:ahh:

I'm not saying women shouldn't approach, but moreso no man should ever sit around waiting for it to happen.
 
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