Attractiveness doesn't matter for dudes

[Larry Lambo]

What do you guys mean when you say status? I feel like everyone has their own meaning when they use the word.

Status to me means, being perceived to have a higher social standing than others. A VP at a company has status, a preacher at a large church has status, a local d-boy that everybody knows has status. It's means you are viewed as "important"

 

[lotteryplaya]

She might marry the ugly rich man but have a broke pretty boy to sleep with on the side.

 

[MalikReloaded]

No no being 6"4 is all that matters

The ideal man is tall, successful, handsome, has high social value, educated, confident, compassionate but, rugged

Nikkas just read the tall part and forget about the rest

You think bytches want an ugly, broke, unpopular, stupid, wimpy, insecure dude just because he's tall

 

[MikelArteta]

Thecoli dot com y'all

If a woman is into you, you can be broke
If a woman is into you, you can be ugly

 

[Music Fiend]

Women def care about looks breh. It's just not everything.

As with most things in life.

 

[TEH]

They care about looks but it's not #1 like how it is for most of us. But status / power trumps all else. They want a provider and a protector status gives that perception. You can have status in a small group / small community and it still counts. Money matters because it brings automatic status for those who have it.

This is why the "big man" in any community can eat well. They all want to be the boss's girlfriend / wife ... and it all trickles down from there ...

 

[Jean Jacket]

All women are not the same. You attract what you put out.

 

[BujuBoombastic]

Nah, can't do it. Sorry, #uglyteam

 

[Max Goonberg]

What do you guys mean when you say status? I feel like everyone has their own meaning when they use the word.

Who u are in the grand scheme of the world or atleast ur area or field. Basicly can she benefit from just knowing u.

Does ur name mean anything. Can she use u to make her homegirls n exes jealous.

Being the wife of an ugly nba player has wayy better perks than being the wife of an attractive plumber.

Also depends on how vain and selfish shorty is.

 

[VFib]

Who u are in the grand scheme of the world or atleast ur area or field. Basicly can she benefit from just knowing u.

Does ur name mean anything. Can she use u to make her homegirls n exes jealous.

Being the wife of an ugly nba player has wayy better perks than being the wife of an attractive plumber.

Also depends on how vain and selfish shorty is.

Most women aren't dating NBA players. Are you guys talking about IG models, reality stars and groupies, or regular every day women?
There are married plumbers, garbage men, bus drivers, custodians, etc.
What type of women are you pursuing? And why continue to pursue a woman you find to be vain and selfish when there are plenty who aren't.

 

[010101]

its all about what you can potentially do for her

she wants beautiful children
but what use are beautiful children who you can't afford to feed shelter educate etc.

whoever is offering the most wins
if you possess the things she values you will eat

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[Giselle]

It's just icing on the proverbially cake. I've come to realize what actually matters to women more so than looks is a mans social status and wealth. Attractiveness like tallness are just extras. Now I'm no midget ass short garden gnome looking ass dude by any means but I'll admit the ugly short nikka with bank and a decent circle will beat out the attractive tall nikka with no money or friends 9 out of 10 times when it comes to pulling top notch p*ssy(attractive bishes). The chicks who sit up here and talk about physical standards are just doing it to spite some of you ugly dudes.

Sorry, but that is false unless you're dealing with broke or gold digging heauxs.

I could never in my life date a short man or someone who I think is "ugly". Idc if he has money, my parents have money too and I can use theirs while I'm getting my own and waiting for my tall attactive wealthy loyal man.

 

[Londilon]

Yes to brothas that have figured out how to stop thinking beyond the shallow, but a lot of young brothas aren't there yet. This is why there are so many stuck in thirst traps. There is literly a post everyone day about some IG thot whore that looks similar to all the other IG thot whores that have been posted here on the coli. I'm slowly seeing that these threads are getting less and less attention but there is still some nikkas that never learn.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

It's just icing on the proverbially cake. I've come to realize what actually matters to women more so than looks is a mans social status and wealth. Attractiveness like tallness are just extras. Now I'm no midget ass short garden gnome looking ass dude by any means but I'll admit the ugly short nikka with bank and a decent circle will beat out the attractive tall nikka with no money or friends 9 out of 10 times when it comes to pulling top notch p*ssy(attractive bishes). The chicks who sit up here and talk about physical standards are just doing it to spite some of you ugly dudes.

You say "attractiveness" but you mean looks. Money is attractive. Intelligence is attractive. Making a girl laugh is attractive. You have to ATTRACT the woman to get with her.

But I agree looks aren't important for men. I mean, as long as you're not ugly af I guess. I'm a handsome dude but never got chicks til I got my mouf piece right.

 

[HoloGraphic]

Attraction goes both ways. Maybe you're just repelling in some way you may not be aware of?