Aubrey Plaza’s Husband, Director Jeff Baena Dies At Age 47

[Mandarin Duck]

Ugly bytch was fukking other dudes and her husband killed himself. She’s no sympathetic figure.

You're trying too hard.

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

You're trying too hard.

That’s exactly what happened!!

 

[MisterMajesty]

Both of those things(the job and the wife's status) requires a specific personality type and healthy therapy to handle long term personal experience

People being ignorant and attributing this to whatever the most recent version of his life was don't understand he could've BEEN a suicidal type of person and that relationship was a temporary escape, working in the industry was an escape, etc. etc.

You just never know unless they explained themselves to someone or left a note

Why?

 

[DaddyFresh]

That’s exactly what happened!!

Yeah, she almost seems content he gone.

 

[Gains]

a lot of these hollywood marriages are transactional as fukk

 

[Gains]

oh yeah , she got issues

 

[DaddyFresh]

a lot of these marriages are transactional as fukk

fixed. But she seems relieved he gone no cap.

 

[Uchiha God]

I don’t know how brehs are getting “content” or “relieved” from that clip.

Her whole thing/schtick/personality is being this almost awkward girl that uses sarcasm and comedy with an acerbic delivery to deflect and/or address most situations.

She’s talking about there being an ever present gorge of desperation in her life and her daily struggle not to jump in it/run from it. I don’t know how people read that as relief/content

 

[Killer Instinct]

She killed that man.

 

[ORDER_66]

She killed that man.

 

[Wargames]

She sounds like my friend whose wife died and he is now raising their 7 year old alone. He does a lot of compartmentalization of his overall grief and his emotional status day to day because he can’t be in the moment and also be actively grieving. Like that part where she says I am ok right now. He says that too, often.

Like Lowkey from observing him I think you kind of have to become a little bit of a sociopath to not lose your mind when the person you loves dies. It’s either repress those emotions or they will drive you insane.

 

[Uchiha God]

Like that part where she says I am ok right now. He says that too, often.

That’s how grief is for the most part. You’ll sink to unimaginable depths - then the next day you’ll be OK, then suddenly the littlest thing will remind you of who/what you lost and you’re back to despair.

It’s not a linear process and to compound it you’ll often be dealing with survivor’s guilt and self-loathing/shame for the days that you are OK. Like, you’ll catch yourself laughing/having a good time and then feel bad about it/for having a good time

When my dawg died I had so many times I grabbed my shyt to call/text him to tell him about what was happening right then and there and then it would hit me, he’s no longer here. You’ll have OK moments, then OK days, over time you’ll even have good days but the shyt is perpetually there

 

[Reptile]

Unless Aubrey has a dikk, that particular breh isn't interested in her.

Keep thinking these gay dudes aint surreptitiously smashing women...

 

[Sauce Dab]

She sounds like my friend whose wife died and he is now raising their 7 year old alone. He does a lot of compartmentalization of his overall grief and his emotional status day to day because he can’t be in the moment and also be actively grieving. Like that part where she says I am ok right now. He says that too, often.

Like Lowkey from observing him I think you kind of have to become a little bit of a sociopath to not lose your mind when the person you loves dies. It’s either repress those emotions or they will drive you insane.

Yeah if you don’t repress it at least a little bit it’ll make you almost suicidal. It might not be the most healthy way to go about shyt but it helps. Personally I do the same thing

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

She didn’t have kids so its kinda …whatever