I can see both sides. Weird.
Everyone, man or woman, should go after who they are most attracted to. If not then cheating occurs. Eventually water has to seek its own level.
But I've heard mostly women being unrealistic in their standards. See guys know when they're being ridiculous with their list it's comical. So we tell each other step ur game up aka work out, dress well, get more money 6series 6 figs etc.
But rarely do I hear women say the same or take the same advice. It's that whole self acceptance mantra. It's "if he can't handle me at my worst then he doesn't deserve my best" or "why are men dropping the ball" or "men are intimidated by strong women" smh pls stop
Times have changed. Dating and marriage are at an all time low for obvious reasons. And yet with no self work or more to offer they just expect great guys to just settle with them like it's the norm. See guys don't just expect IG model wives without doing anything. We aspire and level up because we get it. But women think nothing needs to be done.
I've seen avg girls shoot their shot through friends and it's like easy Steph curry take a look at my exes first. No offenses but chill. Its almost insulting lol