Avoid losers at all times, bruhs.

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A white man hitchhiking :unimpressed:
 

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You came in here asking me, I don’t know the particulars of your relationship other than what you type.

if you trying to trigger people to bring out the worst in them, you’re bringing them down...



if you wanna use this opportunity to share your relationships, just to let you know, I didn’t ask for any information. Only responding to say what I just did...

hell naw just to get reactions I hate seeing people down, I don’t know if you posted in that kent thread before but guys like him i hate seeing them being so stressed over women and relationships. I hope everyone succeeds at what they planning to do
 

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Definitely a much needed threads for the kids...and even some adults.

I would add; surround yourself with winners; people with talent and who only look to grow up, and outward. Read two books every month, work on your penmanship, find new hobbies to excel at, go to the gym, stop dressing up like a child.
 

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In a way it's kind of weird people believe that they need to associate with ambitious people to be successful.

YOU need to an ambitious person to be successful. Hanging around someone with an admirable mindset really won't change a person that's the opposite in the blink of an eye.







I think.
Yes and no. People need each other to start businesses ventures etc. I guarantee you that if Marc Zuckerberg stayed in his room with no friends he wouldn't be where he is now. The two people that helped him make Facebook were close friends.
 

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You’re the loser everyone in here is talking about...

I would never say my shyt talking is designed to trigger anyone. Jokes is pure spirit, not designed to hurt...

I know successful people who do this though ?
 

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network with "successful" people is the real message, they don't just make you better by osmosis. Walking and talking like them isn't going to make you more successful.you have to actually get into their business/employment network and business-social circles. the best jobs and opportunities aren't on job search engines, it's still a word-of-mouth world. Lots of "successful" people have trash work ethics, do drugs, drink heavily, etc...but they are just in the right network of people/nepotism.

Its interesting reading posts like this. Its kinda what the coli lacks in their brains when it comes to race and adult life. Some black men arent accepted in many circles of other successful blacks but they happen to get helped out and put on by different races. That same person is still expected to be all about that black power shyt though. Some probably still won't get this post but whatever.
 

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I was originally going to cosign the op's post but something about the post bothered me for real.

The message is wrong actually because now when I think about it, you have to be careful in terms of what we define as success, on what being successful is, what someone did to become successful, and a whole lot of other shyt. I have to put "success" in quotes.

What do you think is success? Is it having three cars and a mansion or being able to achieve happiness and peace from within while living your true passion despite not making a lot of money? Success and failure are subjective.

Theres plenty of losers and scumbags who are "successful" that I'm quite positively sure are to be avoided at all cost. Keep in mind there's plenty of folks that had to do some despicable shyt to be successful. I think a persons character and personality is more important in terms of determining who to be around. Harvey Weinstein is "successful", Donald Trump is "successful", and we all know about them. The examples are countless. Some of the most miserable and ugliest people in this world are "successful". They have no code of ethics. Marlo Stanfield would be considered to be "successful". Plenty of "successful" people are not happy.

I think this post is more centered around the ego than it is from the heart. Yes, you do have to network, have to feed off of peoples energies, make moves and etc with other people depending on the situation to meet whatever goals you have. Hopefully these goals are positive.

But a lot of it depends on the person themselves. Someone who is ambitious, motivated, has tenacity, willpower, patience and a whole bunch of good traits centered towards getting what they want done.. that's more important than just the people you hang around. That one person can actually inspire other people to pull themselves up when they aren't in the right state of mind to get what they have to get done.
 

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Not foes.... I peeped it.
If someone puts you down and has a relationship designed that way, it’s becomes unhealthy.

you’re dealing with foes, not friends

People think of success so narrowly. You can be so poor, all you have is money...so what standard do you judge success by?

Maintaining with people rather than growing?

I call that stagnation
 

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If someone puts you down and has a relationship designed that way, it’s becomes unhealthy.

you’re dealing with foes, not friends

People think of success so narrowly. You can be so poor, all you have is money...so what standard do you judge success by?

Maintaining with people rather than growing?

Not me..but I'm sure behind my back probably..they blood but I keep my distance, it's just something I noticed..

I mean success to me is complete financial Independence...

They well off...I don't think I ever heard them say anything positive about anyone they ever brought up...

I'll leave it like that.

But in my opinion successful people aren't always good people.

Be observant of everybody.
 

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Not me..but I'm sure behind my back probably..they blood but I keep my distance, it's just something I noticed..

I mean success to me is complete financial Independence...

They well off...I don't think I ever heard them say anything positive about anyone they ever brought up...

I'll leave it like that.

But in my opinion successful people aren't always good people.

Be observant of everybody.
Losers are bad people, that’s why I said what standard do you judge success. Success just means achieving your goals.

you can have fukked up goals...make money, still put people down.

the presence of money doesn’t equate to successfulness, unless that’s your only goal.
 

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Losers are bad people, that’s why I said what standard do you judge success. Success just means achieving your goals.

you can have fukked up goals...make money, still put people down.

the presence of money doesn’t equate to successfulness, unless that’s your only goal.

Got you :obama:
 
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